- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I have a guest list dilemma. This is part 1. I wanted a small wedding. My FI has a small list of about ten people he is inviting and that’s famil and friends. Me on the other hand, I have a huge family. I am the oldest of 12 children and then their is our mother and father. Of course my cousins who live in the city and some that attend the same church found out and want to come. They’re really close to me and invited. a cousin that is sibling to the cousins that live in my city live in another state but she is invited because I always called her my big Sister. However, I have cousin’s whose mother is sibling to my father and I am not so close to them. A. they live out of state. B. They were kind of ignorantly rude to my father at my Grandmothers funeral , but thats another story. But I don’t want to leave them out because they are family and my aunt is already ranting about how I don’t call her much. They are the second highest sibling count in a family of nine. The problem is that they have kids and some of their kids have kids. So without excluding these cousins how do I invite them with out them inviting their kids and their kids kids. I should note I do know some of the Kids with kids but due to budget reasons and wanting to have money for a really nice honey moon, I can’t afford to invite everyone. Any ideas anyone?
There is another part to my guest dilemma which I will put in another post.
Thanks a bunch!