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posted 7 months ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Have you ever applied to be a Hive Blogger?
    Applied - Never got a responce : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Applied - They kindly said no (please explain) : (8 votes)
    6 %
    Applied - Recently, still waiting... : (5 votes)
    4 %
    Applied - The Hive said "Yes" : (15 votes)
    12 %
    Wanted to apply but was too affraid (what's your fear?) : (22 votes)
    17 %
    No interest in being a blogger : (78 votes)
    60 %
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    Hello Bees,

    Have any of you applied to be a blogger?  If so, do you have any words of wisdom you'd like to share.  I applied last week and I'll be on the edge on my seat until I hear something.

     

     
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    Rachael432    July 13, 2012   Chicago, IL

    I have a really sharp, dry humor that always creeps into my writing, and I think it rubs people the wrong way.

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    Sharp and Dry humor, it would be a fun twist around here.  You should go for it!

     
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    callirome    October 27, 2013  

    I plan on applying once I am close enough. I'm still a Waiting Bee now, but as soon as I get engaged I will be starting my own blog and drafting up what I will eventually write for the application and (hopefully) The Hive!

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    @knvprincess143: A lot of our bloggers applied more than once before being accepted. Hopefully one of them will see this and pop in to share their advice, but from what I've seen them say before, it's that if you are declined, ask for feedback on what you can do to improve, follow it, and apply again!

     
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    joy2011    October 22, 2011   NE Ohio

    There isn't an option for, "Did not apply; I have no interest in allowing the whole world to read my every decision or thought regarding my wedding."

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    @bakerella: Thanks!

    I guess I'm wondering if I'll get a "we regret to inform you" letter.  Or is no news bad news.  Sounds like they tell you either way, which is good.  I'm only six months out from my wedding.  If I get denied, I don't have much time to keep retrying. 

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    Hi! I'm a blogging bee! Do you have any specific questions? That may be more helpful. :)

    In general, I think one of the biggest things is to have a clear sense of voice. If you know who you are and are able to capture that in writing, then people will be able to relate to you so much better. Hand-in-hand with that is writing for an audience. Yes, write what you're passionate about and stay true to yourself, but writing doesn't occur in a vacuum, especially when you're writing for a blog. If you make a conscious effort to write to a specific audience (aka Weddingbee), your writing will be much stronger and more relatable. 

    I hope that helps! As I said, if you have any specifics questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them. :)

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    @joy2011: I added your option.  Thanks you!

     
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    RAWR.its.BREN    October 6, 2012   Ohio

    I'm not sure how to apply, but I can tell you I'd love to do it! lol

     
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    bookworm88    August 4, 2012  

    @joy2011: I waffle between the two.  I know my SO would hate to have our wedding blogged-- he's a private person and I would be mortified if anyone I knew in person found out I blogged! But I'm also ridiculously competitive and part of me just wants the thrill of the chase. Tongue out

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @knvprincess143: You will definitely hear either way! And I was accepted two months away from my wedding! Some bees were accepted with less than a month! So with six months, you have plenty of time. :)

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @RAWR.its.BREN: Here's the page that has all the application instructions! http://www.weddingbee.com/weddingbee-bloggers/

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    @parasol: Thanks for the advice!  If you want to and have a minute check out my blog (found in my profile) and let me know what you think.  I just started using my own wedding as the theme so there is only a few posts regarding my wedding. Any feedback would be great, good, bad or ugly.  I'm open to it.

     
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    acingthelace    September 24, 2011  

    I almost applied a few times but I really like having some anonymity. Would be fun though!

     
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    Rachael432    July 13, 2012   Chicago, IL

    @knvprincess143: I'm thinking about it, I'm trying to build up my wedding blog a little more, since we are finally back into the process of planning after the very crazy year we've had. I hope you get approved!

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @knvprincess143: I just sent you a PM! I thought that was more appropriate since you asked for feedback on your blog. :) 

     
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    skunk    November 5, 2011  

    I lurve the bee.  And was a huge board stalker/commenter when I was still waiting.  Mr. Skunk totally caught me on the bee too a couple times and took a look at it.  Naturally after getting engaged, the bee became my go-to source for wedding related questions.  I had mentioned blogging one night, and Mr. Skunk said go for it!  The worst that could happen is that they say no.  After blogging for about a month religously, I sent in my application.  I was accepted the next week.  I think I was right at the two month mark when I got accepted.  I love writing and putting myself out there so this has been a lot of fun.

     

     

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    @skunk:  That is great, good for you.  I've gotten some good feedback from the very awesome parasol (which by the way I so need a parasols for a photo-op), which was very helpful.  Hopefully one day I'll be a sister blogger :)

    <3

     
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    callirome    October 27, 2013  

    @parasol: and @skunk: How long do you think you should keep a blog before applying to be a Bee? Like I stated previously, I'm still waiting (and I wish they would allow waiting Bees to blog because I think it would be a really interesting viewpoint, but I digress) but ever since I first came to The Hive I've wanted to be a Bee. The problem is I don't have any experience with blogging or creating a blog!

     
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    dorsay    August 2009  

    @callirome: I started my blog pretty much just for weddingbee, I had about 20ish posts when I applied and I blogged consistently for about 3 weeks before submitting. Mostly to see if I would like blogging, if I would like blogging with such frequency and to practice writing for an audience. 

     
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    MsBrooklynA       Midwest

    @callirome: I think it would be a really interesting guest post to have a waiting bee sharing their experiences on the blog!

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @callirome: I think the official requirement is 15 posts, and you have to blog consistently (3-4 posts/week) for two weeks. I think you can never start too early! And even if you can't apply for months, you'll probably be a much stronger writer and have a better sense of what you want to convey on your blog, which will only help when you do apply. Practice does make perfect! :)

    I started blogging in January, and I didn't apply until July! I kept putting it off, even though I really wanted to be a Bee and had my application all ready to go. When I finally applied, I think I had something like 50-60 posts. On the other hand, some Bees are accepted with only 15. There's no "right" way to do things around here! :)

     
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    Earlybride    October 6, 2012  

    I am sooo not good at writing. Getting my thoughts down, that I would never DARE to apply. I know I would get a huge fat rejection letter. A nice one though. lol

    Plus I am so busy I dont have time to write and things.

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @knvprincess143: I'm so glad the feedback was helpful! I'm crossing my fingers that it's good news. But even if it's not, so many Bees applied more than once. Last month, Teaspoon wrote about her application experience, and she had to apply four times (I think?) before being accepted! I'm so glad she didn't give up because she's a wonderful blogger!

    Here's her post: http://www.weddingbee.com/2011/09/30/a-bees-life-teaspoon-edition/#more-216740

     
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    skunk    November 5, 2011  

    @callirome:  I'm with dorsay.  I just started a blogger account for the sake of applying.  I had about thirty-five posts about one per day.  A waiting viewpoint would be interesting.  I felt like I LIVED on the waiting boards.  hehe.

     
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    callirome    October 27, 2013  

    @MsBrooklynA: I know right! Waiting is actually more the norm now that the surprise proposal is. I really, really wish they would let someone blog it. Not necesarily me, although that would be nice, lol.

     
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    callirome    October 27, 2013  

    @skunk: Same here, I kind of want to get a meeting of the waiting girls together, lol.

     
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    candy apple    August 2011  

    Another thing to keep in mind is frequency of posting. Typically, Bees blog 3-4 times a week. When you apply, it is good to have a nice, hefty back-log of posts, so that the application team can really get a sense of your blogging voice. I would suggest blogging for at least 3 weeks! Strong, focused posts are important too.

    Other than that, try to stay true to your voice and your style. Try not to get wrapped up in the idea of blogging, and write about what moves you in your wedding planning.

    I applied and was accepted after about 3 weeks? I think? I'm not quite sure what the app committee saw in me, to be honest, but I like to think it's because I have a strong writing style.

    Let me know if you have more specific questions!

     
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    pinkpaperbride      

    I always thought it would be fun, but didn't think it was worth the time/effort...I didn't vote on the poll.

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    Can we have another option: Can't apply as still a waiting bee!

     
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    mrscheetos    June 10, 2012  

    My planning process wouldn't be interesting enough. 

    I don't read the blogs on here anyways, I prefer the boards.

     
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    knvprincess143    May 19, 2012   Michigan

    Right now it's hard because I feel like I'm blogging to myself, lol.  I wish I had more than 1 follower so I could get feedback and hear from other girls going throught the same things.  I sometime copy my blog post on the board (for now) just to hear what other bees are doing and think of what I'm doing.  Do you think the selection commitee will notice I do this and mind?

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    Also, this may seem like a really stupid question to a lot of you but...... what is(are) the benefit(s) of being a bee?

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Do you blogger bees still post on the boards under your old accounts?

     
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    callirome    October 27, 2013  

    @VickyAurea: Like!

     
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    dorsay    August 2009  

    @VickyAurea: It's a volunteer position, so I think it's different for everyone. When I applied I was living in a smallish village in England, knew almost no one and really appreciated an online community. Plus, Mr.D and I were going through the whole immigration process and I couldn't really find any blogs (mostly message boards) dealing with the topic in a personal way. So... I guess the benefits for me were a sense of community since I was struggling to make a real life one in my new surroundings, being able to share our immigration story and to give me something to do since I had to be unemployed (and could not legally volunteer either!) in England. 

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @VickyAurea: The greatest benefit is being able to share your story with thousands of readers. As @knvprincess143 said in the post above yours, it's hard to write when you feel like no one is listening or cares. A lot of us write because we're passionate, and we want to share our experiences. Weddingbee is a huge platform that gets a crazy high amount of hits every single day, more than most bloggers would ever dream of seeing on their personal blogs. 

    And it's an awesome community. As a individual blogger, you have to work really hard to build up the type of network that simply comes with being a Weddingbee blogger. And that's great. I've made some really amazing friends through Weddingbee, and that's pretty awesome.

     
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    hermitcrab    June 2010   NYC

    @Eva Peron: you can choose to link or not link your new account with your old one - if you choose to not link, you will start posting under your blogger moniker, and start at 0, and the old one will be stagnant.  If you choose to link, all of your posts up til this point will change to your new moniker (which is why sometimes you'll see responses to someone who seems to be no longer on the thread).

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    @hermitcrab: Thanks for clearing that up, Mrs. HC! I didn't know that. :)

    @Eva Peron: As for using old accounts, I can only speak for myself, and I don't use my old one. Though sometimes I run across an old thread that I started or participated in, and it feels like this really cool blast from the past. 

     

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