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I couldn't remember who said it first. I thought it was me but then I asked the DH and he said he did. Hmmm....
Shoot.. just realized I voted for "the girl" Oops... how to I change it? (Maybe I can't... oh well.)
He definitely did. He said it about a month before I did. I felt bad about it at the time, but I'm glad I waited :-)
He said it first, and then I said it right back :) I had already been thinking it in my head, but I was hoping at the time that he would say it first... and he did!
He did, a few weeks before me. I felt terrible about it but was so unprepared. It all worked out though ;)
I was first even though it was too early and I probably didnt mean it, lol. The first real, meaningful, deep, I love came from him much later in our relationship.
Wow, this is really interesting. Guys saying I love you, first???
I waited, bc I wasn't sure how he felt, but I basically guilted him into it...oops!
He did. Though it was more of a mouthing, just in case I didn't feel the same way. I did though :-)
I waited it out because I wanted him to have to say it first. We were friends for a long time before we started dating, but I wanted him to be the one to say "I Love you" first. After over a year of dating on New Years Eve, we were having a conversation about our relationship. He said something along the lines of "Well, of course I love you..." and I was like "well, I DIDN'T know that because YOU didn't SAY IT!" :) It's kind of a joke between us now.
I was totally the first and it slipped out! I was leaving him a message on his answering machine about something and before I hung up I said "I love you, bye!" It came out of nowhere! Sooo not the romantic moment I had hoped for but he loved it and thought it was so natural and genuine. And he told me he loved me the next time we were together in person. We still laugh about it though.
I knew it first, but I didn't want any awkwardness so I waited to say it out loud until he said it. It's funny because we were talking and he went through this whole realization that he had (while talking to another friend) and told me "I think I love you" so I said "think?" and he said "no I know". I'll always remember that.
He was. My previous boyfriend and I said it ALL THE TIME, and I didn't have any interest in throwing around the phrase.
He said he was falling in love with me a few weeks after we started dating, and said he loved me almost immediately after. After the first few times, I would respond with "And I love you." It wasn't until at least six months in that I worked up the courage to say "I love you" to him without prompting! Crazy.
Yeah, I did. 
It accidently slipped out after about a month of dating. He followed shortly after. Whew!
We were dating for maybe three weeks when he texted me 'Olive Juice' when I was boarding a plane for a business trip. I didn't get it at first, but my coworker said it was a sneaky/shy way of saying I Love You without actually saying it. Didn't really work via text lol. When I came back from my trip tho, we had dinner one evening and he gave me a poem he wrote me where the last line said I love you. How sweet right?!..oh...where is that romantic now?! lol jk he's still just as sweet as ever if not more
i said it. i was used to saying it a lot because i had been in a really long relationship before him, and i was ready. but he hadn't been in a serious relationship... ever. and i think he was kind of weirded out and not ready. it all worked out in the end though!
he said it first, over webcam (romantic, I know :P)
My response? "I wondered if we were going to do that over webcam or wait... I love you too."
I did....but he wanted to say it first and told me i beat him to it...lol
It was him. We were actually somewhere pretty cheesy and very busy. I still smile when I think about it because when he said it that was like all I could hear. But, I suspected he felt that way before he said it and my mom told me MONTHS before that. I guess mom does know everything!
i said it first between us, but then i tried not to say it again because i felt like i was pushing him to say it when he didn't mean it. when he eventually did say it, it was so romantic. i was staying over his place and falling asleep on the couch and he whispered it into my ear. it was about a month after i had originally said it.
He said it first about a month after we started dating. We were actually at a concert for our favorite band and during one of the songs the line says "I love you too..." and he said it right after that. It took me a minute to respond because I was in shock. I couldn't have imagined a better way for it to be said.
He said it first, largely by implusive speaking, he meant to say " I really like you" but what came out was closer to home :o)
We argue on this. He'll say I said it first and I think he did. I have e-mails/letters from him that said he was falling in love with me while he was deployed, but apparently I was the first to actually say it outloud or something like that.
But, I guess, I did than, because I don't really remember. lol
I bit my tongue and waited!
He was the first boyfriend that I said "I love you" to and it wasn't just an answer because he'd said it first. I thought a lot about loving him/how to know I loved him/how much I wanted him to say it before it happened. We actually even had one rediculous "false start" (involving his roommate and MSN - we were in a long distance relationship). Funny in HINDSIGHT. I was not amused at the time.
It was such an amazing thing to wait to say and I was on a high for days after he said it. Ah...blissful.
My husband told me he loved me after we had been seeing each other for 25 days. He proposed 5 days after that. I didn't say I love you until about 4 months later. There were times before where I wanted to say it, but I was just too scared to get the words out.
My ex-boyfriend and I said it all the time, and I went through a period where I didn't want to say it again until I absolutely 100% meant it. I didn't think I had meant it with my ex about half the time, so it was terrifying to say it again.
He said it first, when we stopped for lunch on the way home so he could meet my parents. In a very smooth move, I said, really, you love me? as a response. A few minutes later he got a much more gracious and meaningful response!
He did.. I had a bad experience with my ex.. who I said it to first, but he never did. (we dated 2 years - duh! bad life choice after knowing he didn't love me - not that he treated me bad or anything)
So I wanted to wait this time and when he said it so did I ... :)
He said it. But it wasn't like just straight out, I love you. We were talking and he said something about he thinks he loves me. And I was like you think? and he said I do love you! :) makes me smile thinking about it! :)
wow - i am sooo amazed to see how many guys said it first here! sooo awesome! my guy said it first in a kind of jokey way (we were in bed and he said it in a very silly high-pitched voice, and i was like "huh?"), so i didn't actually say it back until he said it again for real.
He said it about a week after we started dating. We were, errrr, in bed, let's say, so I wasn't sure if it was legit or not and I didn't say it back, but then he said it again and I knew it was for real so I said it back.
FI said it first, but if you ask him he claims he doesn't remember when it happened!
Oh goodness, our 'I love you' moment was anything but romantic. I said it first after a year of dating. I loved him very early on in our relationship, but we had both been put through the ringer before. Neither of us were in a rush, but I felt it so strongly one night so I said it, and he said.....nothing! Not a word! I was humiliated. I demanded that he take me home because I felt the entire year we had been together was a sham! I was done done done. I wasn't about to waste another second on someone that didn't feel the same way I did. I know, that's harsh, but my ex really screwed me over. Poor guy felt so badly. He told me he loved me too and when I got home that night I had a text message from him with at least 20 'I love you'. Even though it wasn't like I had envisioned it, I wouldn't change a thing.
I said it about 3 weeks after we started dating and he said it the following week.
I had been wanting to say it but couldn't! When he did say it first, I still couldn't say it back right away. I guess I was afraid and competey caught off gaurd by how strong my feelings were for him. But, I think I knew he was the one the first night we met.
He said it about 3 months into us dating. Actually he wrote it in a love letter and left it under my windshield on my car one early morning. That just made cry! I said it back a year later (got burnt before, so really wanted to make sure this time:)
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