(Closed) Who was the first to say ‘I love you’?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who was the first to say 'I love you'?
    the girl : (48 votes)
    30 %
    the guy : (112 votes)
    70 %
  • Post # 3
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    4765 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    He definitely did. He said it about a month before I did. I felt bad about it at the time, but I’m glad I waited πŸ™‚

    Post # 4
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    604 posts
    Busy bee

    He said “i love you” a week into our relationship.

    Post # 5
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    2397 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    He said it first, and then I said it right back πŸ™‚  I had already been thinking it in my head, but I was hoping at the time that he would say it first… and he did!

    Post # 6
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    987 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    He did, a few weeks before me.  I felt terrible about it but was so unprepared.  It all worked out though πŸ˜‰

    Post # 7
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    81 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I was first even though it was too early and I probably didnt mean it, lol. The first real, meaningful, deep, I love came from him much later in our relationship.

    Post # 9
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    1813 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I waited, bc I wasn’t sure how he felt, but I basically guilted him into it…oops!

    Post # 10
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    2289 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    He did. Though it was more of a mouthing, just in case I didn’t feel the same way. I did though πŸ™‚

    Post # 11
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    3332 posts
    Sugar bee

    I waited it out because I wanted him to have to say it first.  We were friends for a long time before we started dating, but I wanted him to be the one to say “I Love you” first.  After over a year of dating on New Years Eve, we were having a conversation about our relationship.  He said something along the lines of “Well, of course I love you…” and I was like “well, I DIDN’T know that because YOU didn’t SAY IT!”  πŸ™‚  It’s kind of a joke between us now.

    Post # 12
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    44 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I was totally the first and it slipped out! I was leaving him a message on his answering machine about something and before I hung up I said “I love you, bye!” It came out of nowhere! Sooo not the romantic moment I had hoped for but he loved it and thought it was so natural and genuine. And he told me he loved me the next time we were together in person. We still laugh about it though.

    Post # 13
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    824 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011 - The Tribute Golf Club

    I knew it first, but I didn’t want any awkwardness so I waited to say it out loud until he said it.  It’s funny because we were talking and he went through this whole realization that he had (while talking to another friend) and told me “I think I love you” so I said “think?” and he said “no I know”.  I’ll always remember that.

    Post # 14
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    He was. My previous boyfriend and I said it ALL THE TIME, and I didn’t have any interest in throwing around the phrase.

    He said he was falling in love with me a few weeks after we started dating, and said he loved me almost immediately after. After the first few times, I would respond with “And I love you.” It wasn’t until at least six months in that I worked up the courage to say “I love you” to him without prompting! Crazy.

    Post # 15
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    949 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Yeah, I did. Embarassed It accidently slipped out after about a month of dating.  He followed shortly after.  Whew!

    Post # 16
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    562 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We were dating for maybe three weeks when he texted me ‘Olive Juice’ when I was boarding a plane for a business trip.  I didn’t get it at first, but my coworker said it was a sneaky/shy way of saying I Love You without actually saying it.  Didn’t really work via text lol.  When I came back from my trip tho, we had dinner one evening and he gave me a poem he wrote me where the last line said I love you.  How sweet right?!..oh…where is that romantic now?! lol jk he’s still just as sweet as ever if not more

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