(Closed) Who will walk step-mom down the isle?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: How should step-mom walk down the isle?
    Alone : (3 votes)
    75 %
    with son-in-law : (0 votes)
    add ushers : (1 votes)
    25 %
    other...please make comments below : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1184 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    If you have your bridesmaids walk down the aisle by themselves, the groomsmen could be the ushers and after they sit everyone down they go down the aisle and stand by the groom and wait for the bridesmaids. That’s the way I’m doing it.

    Post # 4
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    If you arent close to her, could you just have her sit early, rather than be a part of the processional?

    Post # 5
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Or have your dad walk her down then double-back for you. I think that is done a lot of times. 

    Post # 6
    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Daydream sometimes it’s not a matter of closeness but of etiquette. It would sometimes be nice to have things completely our way, but in this case it could change the tone of the whole day if things arent handled carefully. I don’t have a great relationship with my stepmother or my father, and in that case I would probably leave out walking down altogether. 

    Good luck!

    Post # 7
    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I’m in the same boat as you.  My mom doesn’t want to be any where near my Dad and Step-MOM. Nor does my mom feel like this woman should get the spotlight of being a parent of mine.  And she’s right.  My Dad and her have only been married for 2 years and she was the cause of the divorce.  My Dad will walk me down the asile my step-Dad is going to be pre-seated along with her.  I”m also having my grandparents pre-seated because one grandmother fell last week and broke her shoulder bones so I just think it is in her best interest to be seated. 

    I think I will have my mom walked down by my brother, my Future Mother-In-Law and Future Father-In-Law walk in together. Then my Dad and I together. I just think that

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