Who would you choose to spend the rest of your life with?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Which guy would you choose?
    Rich guy : (84 votes)
    23 %
    Smart guy : (135 votes)
    38 %
    Hunky guy : (7 votes)
    2 %
    This was an easy decision. : (84 votes)
    23 %
    I really had to think about this. : (49 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @maureen0907:  I’d be dead because all those seem like a lifetime of torture to me.

    Post # 4
    Member
    9949 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @jadlnc:  It would be torture to live with someone smart?  Whaaaat?  HAHA EDIT…I didn’t read the post.  

    Why would the smart person not be able to make money?  He must not actually be smart….

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @peachacid:  Smart or not, if I don’t find him attractive at all…for one, attractedness doesn’t only come from looks and for two, I’d have to find something attractive somewhere. My FI isn’t hot or gorgeous (he actually has a rather large nose and his bottom lip is way bigger than the top one), but there are things that attract me to him. His eyes, his hands, his hugs (seriously, he gives the best hugs). There’s got to be something or I’d always be looking at and thinking about other guys being stuck with a guy I’m absolutely not attracted to.

    ETA: Ha, I totally missed where you said you didn’t read the whole post. Now we’re both not paying attention. lol.

    Post # 6
    Member
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Honestly, I’d be miserable with any of them. But I chose smarts, because I think the ability to have a real conversation is something I could never live without 

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Rich guy. It affords me vacations with the other two. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m going rich guy!

    I have friends for intellectual stimulation, and a vibrator for sexual stimulation.

    But if he’s a nice guy, and we could make a nice life together, that has to be the guy I choose! Not too hard–But I’ve also been extremely poor. And not even for good conversation could I ever chose that life again!

    Post # 9
    Hostess
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I would choose the rich guy, but.. by all means, they are all horrible choices!

    I mean.. the rich guy is “not very” attractive, while the smart guy is “not at all” attractive, so already that puts the rich guy above him.. and the hot guy, while attractive, obviously has no work ethics to make money.. living isn’t free! The hot guy, is also terribly boring, which would make him less attractive to me, while the rich guy is only “kind of boring”.

     

    Post # 10
    Member
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    The smart guy. I can deal with somebody not being attractive and being broke (hey, I already don’t have any money!), but I can’t deal with someone who is boring or doesn’t like conversation.

    Luckily FH is smart guy and hunky guy rolled into one man… I don’t care about the money aspect.

    Post # 11
    Member
    3955 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @maureen0907:   Smart!!  How can smart not be attractive!!  

    Post # 12
    Member
    1676 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    This was really hard!! I have to be attracted to someone, but I couldn’t be bored by them, and knowledge does aid my attraction. So I voted smart

    Post # 13
    Member
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I chose the smart guy. If the rich guy can’t keep me interested and the hunky guy is going to lose his looks eventually like the rest of them, might as well have a guy who i can at least talk to for better or worse. 

    Post # 15
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    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    @maureen0907:  I picked the rich guy. There has to be SOME level of attraction otherwise I wouldn’t be happy. So as awesome as the smart guy sounds, if I have NO attraction to him, it wouldn’t work. Then the hunky guy has nothing going for him but his looks and that fades. The rich guy may lose his money over time, but that’s not what’s important to me. He may be boring, but I’m not the life of the party and we could afford to have adventures every now and then. And at least there’s some attraction there. 

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