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Who's hotter? You or you're partner?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who's hotter
    Me : (45 votes)
    34 %
    BF, FI, SO : (33 votes)
    25 %
    Both equal : (54 votes)
    40 %
    Other.... : (2 votes)
    1 %
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    B_Tamara    March 10, 2012   Australia

    Shallow I know, but it'd be interesting to see... I watched your face or mine last night and it got me thinking.

     

    I think pretty girls are everywhere, with make-up and nice clothes its easy to go up a few points (naturally a 6 with make-up an 8! ha), whats hard to find is a really handsome man!

     

     

     

     
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    babyboo      

    I don't know, I'm more of a "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Even the most handsome of men are debatable (Cough* I don't like Brad Pitt).

    However, I will be honest and say I think I am slightly more attractive, but more typical looking (blondish hair, blue eyes, fair skin), than BF. However, he is an athlete (baseball) and when he is in shape he is definitely the more attractive one (plus he is mixed race which makes for a gorgeous skin tone and other features).

    So I guess I can sum it up with: I guess it depends when you ask me the question who I believe is more hot!

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I think we are both equal, we both have our good and bad days. I think he's hot, as he does me, but I"m sure there are people out there who doesn't feel the same. 

     
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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    We are both what you call cute. I am fairly average looking and I wear no make-up ever, but I do try to dress at a certain level of attractiveness. He wears cargo shorts, jeans and t-shirts and his hair is crazy asian and we don't know what to do with it half the time. I put me though because as adorable as I think he is, I think I fit into the societal views of attractive more than him. 

     
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    TheRen    May 2011  

    I have to admit I think he is a lot hotter than I am personally. But he would say it was me.. I agree with babyboo though as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

     
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    jackie-o    October 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    My 'brown eyed girl' fails in comparison to his 'Bedroom Blues' haahaahaa - - FI wins this poll!!!  Those darn ocean eyes of his.....LOL

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I think usually people attract other people of the same caliber of attractiveness, so couples tend to be of equal attractiveness.  I think FH and I are of equal attractiveness levels.  We are both "naturally" attractive, and both put in extra effort into our looks, (me more so than him but he's a guy).  However we are total opposites.  He has dark italian features with a scruffy beard, (think Patrick Dempsey) and I have very light skin and blue eyes, and naturally blonde hair that I dye auburn/chestnut right now, (think Camilla Belle with Alyson Hannigan's coloring)

     
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    Entangled    September 17, 2011   Carmel, CA

    We're pretty close, but in general I think girls are better-looking, so I win.

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    We kind of look alike, honestly. It really freaks me out when we get mistaken for brother and sister! The E ring has pretty much stopped that, thank goodness. 

     
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    @lilyfaith: that was me and the ex! I fit in 10x better with his family than my own!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Him, but I'm biased.

     
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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    I was just talking about this the other day. FI yells at me because I take to long to get ready. I always yell back " Well, sorry I'm not as pretty as you!" I mean when I have on make up and do my hair I can pretty it up with the best of them, but if I'm au nautral with jeans and a t-shirt I look so boring.

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    I honestly think that we are equal, we could both easily have anyone that we want.

     
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    Ms.Teddy    April 2011   South Carolina

    Im not really sure...Teddy said to me once that it was me when we were at a bar...I was trying to get a drink at a bar...and got immediately served even though there were like 50 girls around me. Im tall...5'9 with long naturally VERY red hair...yet I kind of look latin...since I am...haha. and he told me that night how exotic looking I was...and how lucky such a regular looking guy like him gets to date me :)

     
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    Puggy    November 27, 2010   Southern Indiana/Northwest Florida

    Conventionally, I would say I am. But, as far as I am concerned, he's one of the hottest things to ever walk the earth. (Especially with the legs he's walking around on. yummy.)

     

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    i just asked my fi and he said im hotter.. awwww... but i think he is hotter, i found him so hansom! so i definitely think he is hotter... (im overweight) 

     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    HAHAHAHAH! this totally reminded me of the episode of "How I met your mother" with are you the reacher or the settler.

     I don't think I'm more attractive but I have gotten the "How the hell did he get you?" comments, It really just pisses me off instead of making me feel flattered. I think my FI is HOT! he gained some weight after we started dating but weight aside he is just plain gorgeous in my opinion.

     
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    MrsDibs    April 16, 2010   Columbus, OH

    Honestly, there are days when my hair is perfect and my makeup is done just right that I feel like I am a Victoria's Secret model and I think I am such a hottie, but then there are days that I am just gross. But to me he is the hottest thing to walk this earth, always, those blue eyes and killer abs...yum, yum. So I would say we are even.

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    i think we are pretty even.... we both have our good and "bad" days but overall i think we are a pretty cute couple. Not movie stars by any means but not too shabby i think Wink

     
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    what2bee    August 13, 2011  

    I'd say it is close, but the boy is better looking... He's tall, blonde, and blue eyed fair skin, with good facial features.

    I am a little pudgy, and I have a big nose and my hair is always acting goofy, but I think I clean up nice enough to make us look good together as a couple.

    I'm just banking on making pretty kids with him, some large black women on a cruise told us we will so I'm thinking it be the truth!

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I think for the most part we are equal!

    There are some days I think he is hotter and some days I think I am hotter LOL so I guess it equals out for the most part!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Oo im gonna sound vain, but as far as "traditional" good looks, i probably win in that category. Husband is always getting crap like "she's your wife? what?!" etc. Makes us both feel good, lol. Blue eyes, brown hair, kind of exotic (part asian), tall, nice rack (haha yes....) whereas my husband is more of a "quiet nerdy" kind of handsome. Handsome in that "he looks sweet" kind of way, not in the "oo he's really hot, i bet hes a player/movie star" kind of way. He has nice arms/shoulders and a nice physique...brown eyes, brown hair. Looks best in a dress shirt and jeans or even a slightly tight pajama t-shirt, yum. But those super hot guys make me nervous...I go for more of a "guy next door" look I guess is what I'm saying. Or military guy...i've dated 3 =]

    Ha, nobody else is really fessing up to voting "me", lol. Women are allowed to be hotter, ladies....we get the Stiletto Advantage, helloooo! =]

     
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    commoshin    May 29, 2010   Ellicott City, MD

    We "argue" about this all the time!  I think he's way hotter than I am and vice versa.  It's one of those gross couple things that single friends scoff at.  :)

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    This is one of those threads that just begs for pics. :P

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    Even stevens overall. His facial features are more attractive than mine (he has a fantastic nose and smile) but I have the better body (30Ds plus ickle waist and nice legs). Let's just say I outstrip him in that area. :P Though his broad, muscular shoulders and cute little butt make me swoon...not to mention the deliciously warm brown bedroom eyes...Kiss

     

     
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    B_Tamara    March 10, 2012   Australia

    Here's a pic.... lets see your yours! I'm a bit scared about putting this to the public vote ;)

     
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    B_Tamara    March 10, 2012   Australia

    ok that didn't work...

     
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    B_Tamara    March 10, 2012   Australia

    try again! If I keep going like this I'll be a honey bee!

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    tobemurphy10    October 10, 2010   MA

    He is! And he happens to be the best looking man I have ever dated. I am insecure around him. I cannot contain myself...which is why I love him!

     
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    B_Tamara    March 10, 2012   Australia

    Ok I'm gonna try one more time, then I'm done!

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    bohemianbailie    January 15, 2011   Huntington Beach, California

    I said we are equal but I always joke and say its not fair for boys because I spend time doing my hair, makeup, etc and all he does is shower throw on some clothes and looks great!

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    My FI and I both agree: I'm hotter! lol we've had this discussion a handful of times because we're vain like that :P

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    Holy crap, B_Tamara!  You guys are both SUPER-hot!  He looks so suave and debonair, but you look like a prettier version of Taylor Swift (and love that dress btw)!

    So I don't want to be immodest, but the consensus amongst friends and family (even his!) is that I am the prettier of us.  We also get that the whole, "are you brother and sister?" thing a lot because we both have dark hair and eyes, are tallish, and share like six countries of common ancestry.  And I think he's super-sexy, so that's what matters!  

    You guys can judge, I guess it's only fair, since I brought it up. :P

    (rummaging through photos...argh, I have so few non-drunk ones of us!)

    Well, this one doesn't really do either of us justice (like, his hair doesn't usually look like that, and I think he might be a little tipsy, and it's a weird angle for me), but oh well.  Can't wait to get our e-pics so we have some good ones of both of us...

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    While I do agree that women are generally more attractive than men, I think my guy is hotter than me.  He's just got SUCH an amazing body!  Serious, the abs, the butt, the freckles on the broad shoulders.  And his magic coloured eyes, and his wrinkle nose smile.  Seriously ladies, I have no idea how he gets his ass so round and perfect.  

    Seriously.  So hot.  

    Although I also agree that people tend to go for partners who they feel "on par" with.  I think he's hotter, but I don't feel like he's WAY better looking.

     
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    Capitol.Bride    April 30, 2010   D.C. Metro

    Tamara! He is HOTTTTT.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    @lilyfaith me and my FH look a lot alike too ;) no worries...

    @tamara he is handsome!!! :)

    My fiance' is really attractive but I think I'm pretty okay too ;) and we met at work (neither of us work there anymore) and the company hires based on looks (unfortunatly) so that makes me think we are both at least alright...

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    LindsayB    August 31, 2012   Michigan

    Definitely him.

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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    @lindsay awwe I think you are stunning! so pretty... really refreshing and natural :)

     
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    Miss Stephanie    June 26, 2010   West Virginia

    I would say for the most part we're pretty much equal. But I mean there are some days when I'll look extra good or extra bad, and for him there are some days when I just want to jump him when I see him, and other days (like greasy, haven't showered in awhile days) when that's not exactly the case. But I definitely think we make a good match!

     

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    LindsayB    August 31, 2012   Michigan

    Sulli301, you're being way too nice!  That was taken on my 21st birthday two years ago and...sigh...I don't remember it being taken...Hahaha  Thanks though!  :)  Also, I JUST got my hair cut into thick bangs like yours, and I LOVE them.  It's pictures like the one you posted that inspired to to be daring.

    Everyone who have posted pictures so far are really beautiful individuals as well as couples.  You are all some lucky ladies (we all have lucky men, too)!  ;)

     

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