- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
I realize this question has been asked time and time again, but here’s my situation:
I have two sets of parents (both parents remarried at a young age). Between the two of them, they are splitting 50% of the wedding costs (FI and I are paying for the other half). They are not splitting *exactly* evenly, but close enough. Regardless of who is paying for what, I still put them in alphabetical order, correct?
Do I include my FI’s parents? They are hosting the rehearsal dinner and paying for alcohol during the wedding. Even though they aren’t paying for the wedding directly, they have been financially supportive in other ways that have allowed us to save our own half. I’m not sure how much financial support consitutes an inclusion on the invite? As a side note, they are Texans and pretty conservative, so they’d probably want to do things by the book.
Any idea how I should situate this so no has their feelings hurt? Should I just avoid it all and just say “together with their parents” or something?