Why am I (the bride) so anxious?!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t worry too much.  Just make sure you tell her how terrific she looks when she gets something on that you like. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Like PP said, tell her often how great she looks.

I have a similar problem with an apple-shaped BM, and I think she sees herself much heavier than she is.  She is way more comfortable in empire styles.  I also think something with rouching across the tummy area could be good (but also could be bad if the rouches are pulling).  My other BM is more pear-shaped and would benefit from A-line, so I’m comprimising and doing natural waist, but I still feel resistance from the self-conscious one.  Good luck to you, it might be some extra emotional work, but I think it’s so great you care about her feelings so much (and her yours).

 

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