Why are all the newbie posts about sex?

posted 3 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Newbies love sex, what can I say?

Post # 4
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3673 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Could be regular members going anonymous.

Post # 5
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2358 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Maybe they’re really creepy perverted men who want to hear about womens sex lives for their perverted pleasure

Post # 8
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129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

I found it very odd too! I don’t think all of them are real.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Regina Phalange:  Normally those posters will say that they’re a known bee going anonymous, though.

I’ve noticed this on and off. Certain users seem to ONLY post about sex. Random noobs posting about sex. For a while, we had a ton of noobs post topics about deodorant. I made the mistake of responding to one, and the OP wouldn’t stop PMing me. She’d PM me to ask if I was around to chat. She’d PM me because her “friend” made a chart of the best wedding-day deodorants. Multiple times.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It could be anonymous regular bees, or it might just be people who need an outlet to talk about it and can’t talk to anyone around them.  I dunno….kind of like free therapy maybe?

Or it’s just all creepers.  Totally could be that too….

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sex is one if the few topics on this forum that someone might have a hard time talking about in real life. So it’s not exactly weird that new members might be signing up specifically because they have a sex question they want to ask anonymously and this is their best option. Almost any other topic can be discussed within one’s social group, so there’s no pressing reason to post about it for many people. Anyway, I try to avoid being judgemental when possible, so I cut them some slack, though I don’t usually answer. As for nasty perverts, I’m sure they could find a more fulfilling outlet for their perversion. This is the internet, after all. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@vorpalette:  Good point. It establishes credibility so no one thinks they’re *cough* the t-word…

Post # 14
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4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My theory is people google sex-related things (going “am I normal” or “what do other people think about this” or “what advice can I find about this sex problem”) and end up on the bee’s intimacy boards, read some topics, don’t find the answer they’re looking for, but then decide to join up and post their thing because it seems like a good setting for it.

Weddingbee always comes up very high and frequent in google searches for anything about love, sex, weddings, in-laws, etc. I actually got a LOT of weddingbee google results for various things before I eventually went “OK well I might as well join because apparently this site is relevant to my interests.”

Just my guess.

Post # 15
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91 posts
Worker bee

Probably a guy trying to get some “material” to fap off to.

Post # 16
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207 posts
Helper bee

who cares dont respond if you think it is a pervert fapper. maybe it is the only pressing issue in their lives at the moment.

I mean is there some.secret.rule.where you have to have a certain number under your belt before you can touch the tough topics. Not everyone has the time to comment and post 50+  times a day.

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