Post # 1
It’s really irking me lately! I just got a flowerly, lovely-sounding comment from a girl FH and I know about our engagement… about a month after it was public. On my wall. All my friends know that before FI and I started dating she had a major crush on him and even took me aside and met with me as a ‘friend’ only to chew me out and call me desperate and say if I got into a relationship with the man who is my FH now, I would be using him. She also told me he was dating her at the same time he asked me out ( not true… apparently this girl didn’t know that coffe with mutliple friends wasn’t a date). This girl told me today she can’t wait to see me, etc…..
I don’t know how to respond to her comment or even if I should. I’ve had to deal with several unwanted posts from girls I know weren’t happy with our relationship. Why is it these people post the longest/nicest-sounding things…. when it would be much easier to respond with a mere ‘thank you’ to others who say ‘congrats’ and leave it at that.
Has anyone else had to deal with people being uber-fake over social networks once the engagement went public?
Post # 3
Why is she on your friends list?
Post # 4
Ya, why not block or delete her?
I am pretty selective on who can see information on my facebook. Not that my life is very exciting, but I don’t think that people I have no relationship with, haven’t talked to in 5 years, etc. need to know whats going on in my life.
Post # 5
Delete her its only facebook. Thats what I would do.. no use in keeping her around whats the point?
Post # 6
And that’s why FI and I are not even “in a relationship” on FB. I limit who can see what and post nearly nothing on there. My life is my life and no use letting be nosy!
Ignore the comment and move on.
Post # 8
Delete her and/or change your privacy settings. You don’t have to deal with these people on your FB.
Post # 9
Before I would block her, I would send her a private message “thanks for your congrats. I guess FH likes being used, wink wink” and hit block. It will infuriate her that she can’t reply to you, lol.
Yes, it’s vindictive and childish but so is what she did to you!
I’ll say it again. I hate facebook. A total of 8 people congratulated us on our engagement but there were 31 comments from mutal friends and family about someone else’s post regarding their inability to lick their elbow.
Post # 10
I deal with this a lot too… block block block… that’s what I do… might I add not even 10 people said yay congrats or anything like that to us lol.