Why are some men SO CREEPY?!?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I feel like it’s constant, since I was 13. I have no explanation for it, other than society tells them it’s okay to objectify and stare at women. I’m sorry you’re feeling so violated. Sometimes it helps me to just angrily rant about it to a friend or DH. :/ 

Post # 5
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6407 posts
Bee Keeper

Thought he could get away with it (was raised wrong). Shoulda hit him with an open palm into his nose bridge. Sounds like he wouldn’t have seen it coming.

Post # 6
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Not my boobs, unfortunately, as they are pretty unimpressive without the assistance of two or more bras.

 

Post # 7
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@prettyinpink11:  I have very large breasts and they are stared at almost constantly. Men will either do a quick sneek peak and think I don’t notice, or they will just stare with their tongues lolling out of their stupid heads. It is gross, but I’m used to it I guess. I’ve had big boobs since I was 12 (and no, I wasn’t fat back then, though I am a size 10 now). I find women stare at my chest sometimes too. I find that even more creepy to be honest.

FI will say something if he’s with me, but I usually don’t bother. My favourite? “Hey, asshole, keep your eyes on your own prize.” Makes me laugh every time 😀

Post # 8
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546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Thankfully not all men are like that…but these guys without manners are nasty, I agree…

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m a a shit disturber… I usually bend down, so my eyes are near where my boobs were, look straight into their eyes… and either glare or say “ummm hello?” *que miss.vmec extra bitch*

They’re usually mortified at that point, and I make an extra point to make them feel like it. I have little shame in that sense. Sneak a look, I can deal with that- have I ever checked out a mans package? Sure. Stare and I’ll call ya on it.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@prettyinpink11:  Maybe we just need to draw eyes on our cleavage so they can feel like they are talking to us *eye roll* I don’t get what staring at clothed breasts is going to do for them. It’s not like I dress in revealing outfits!

Post # 13
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9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

It’s even better when I tell them exactly what is wrong with my car and they treat me like I’m an idiot because I have boobs.  I had to take it back to them twice, the third time it was towed back to them and they finally admitted that I was right the first time, it ws the starter going bad.  Male mechanics are A-holes.  I wish I had gone to school to become a mechanic so I could open an auto repair shop that caters just to women.  I am sure that business would be booming.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@prettyinpink11:  …or maybe my BF is physically intimidating 😡 The guy eyeballing your rack in front of your guy must have been looking for a smack in the teeth!

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