Post # 1
Little known fact- Fiance is making the substantial down payment on our dream home as his wedding gift to me. By putting a lot down, we save a ton in long run on interest and we won’t have to pay PMI.
As wonderful as this is, I also find it a bit embarasssing that I can’t contribute to the down payment of my own home. I was a single mother for a long time and have worked mother’s hours so someone would be there for my daughter. I do not have much saved up.
I posted of facebook that We got approved. His friend immediately writes “I thought it was Mr. A’s house” or something equally stupid.
Why oh why are some people like that? I’m embarassed my friends saw that. I grew up in a smallish town and have stayed close with most of my graduating class (we’ve been out 10 years).
Post # 3
@SoontobeMrsA:Wow what an asshole. What’s your FB page, I’ll set him straight….
Post # 4
@SoontobeMrsA: Please please please tell me you deleted that comment and put that numb nuts on limited profile or blocked him altogether. How rude!!!! DH’s stepmom wrote some rude things on my wedding photos so I deleted the comments, put her on limited and recently blocked her. I don’t want her negativity in my life. I’m done with it. If you don’t have anything nice to say just shut up! LOL!
Post # 5
Oh booooo. Delete it! I just posted a rant on another facebook-related post. Sometimes people just freakin’ suck.
Post # 6
I call these people “fun sponges” because they just soak all the fun out of a situation/conversation. BLECH…. ignore, ignore, ignore.
Post # 7
DELETE! What a jerk. Don’t let anyone steal away the happiness of this time!
Post # 8
You were a single mother and invested in your daughter or son, now that daughter or son is both your and your husband’s .. I would look at as you investing in the child you now share and he is contributing towards the home.
It was the same for my situation, except it was myself that had more savings than my husband..but honestly now that we are married its just one big pool..all of our money goes into our household.
Don’t worry about what others say, you guys are married and share everything now.. i wouldn’t let your husband’s friend get to you .. enjoy the excitement of putting a down payment on your dream home!!! sounds like you have worked very hard..and that you and your husband are married..sometimes other people just get jealous.
Post # 9
I would delete both your FI’s friends post, and the original post…but I am a little more cautious about what I put on FB. I am that FB friend that posts “We Closed”, or “I’m Married” b/c those would be completed events. That way there is no room for haters.
Post # 10
I say leave his comment on your FB so everyone can see what a jackhole he is.
Post # 11
What an ass. Delete the comment AND him. Bitter, table for one!
Post # 12
Lemme guess, I bet he doesn’t live in his dream home!
Post # 13
What a jerk…I would block him. Congrats on being approved though! That really is excellent news.
Post # 14
Fi wrote “Yeah, it’s as much my house as your house is your house” meaning he’s married too so the house half belongs to his wife.
Then he sent Fiance a text saying how at least his wife pays half the mortgage 🙁
It just makes me feel like a loser.
Post # 15
I deleted all the comments.
Post # 16
Wow! You don’t need such a JERK in your life!!!