- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
Ugh. I went to a bbq tonight with my FI- it was with his work people (he’s actually leaving them soon, but he hasn’t let them know yet). It was really lovely, until this girl at the bbq starts getting flirtatious with my FI in FRONT of me!
There was a trampoline, and she was like, (say my FI’s name is Rob- it’s not, but let’s pretend) “ROB! Come jump on the trampoline with me!” Several times, nobody else, just my FI, and in a super flirty and loud way (you know the difference?) IN FRONT OF ME!! Of course, “Rob” didn’t, he declined awkwardly, but this was the very first time I met them, and I was totally wondering, um, Rob, is this the kind of relationship you have with this girl at work??
Apparently she is like this with all of the guys in their work group, even going so far as to go to a convention with a married guy who is a supervisor whom she flirts a ton with, but is not her supervisor (which is fairly unusual in research). I told “Rob” that if she flirts with him at work again, he has to just shut that shit down (pardon the french), because that is just unacceptable.
Now, I am no slouch in the looks department. I have my fair share of male attention. But there is this trigger in me, where if I am with someone, or if I wasn’t with someone and I find out that the guy is with someone, that guy automatically becomes asexual to me- my mind just does Not go there, at all.
But I just don’t understand why other girls aren’t like me. How do some girls just, I dunno, debase themselves by being so disrespectful to their fellow women???
Ugh, it was just MESSED UP. Unbelievable.