(Closed) WHY are you getting married?? Huh?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Wow! I have never had anyone ask me this! 

Most of the women in my masters program are married or engaged. The people I work with are all married as well. So, maybe that makes a difference. 

Post # 5
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2137 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

well i have a baby sooo people never ask since for them its obvious [my baby] lol, when in reality now a days couples dont get married just because they have a baby together lol, smh these people.

Post # 6
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4465 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’ve had divorced people (my parents are, but not them) ask me before about my decision to get married. I mostly just nod my head and sort of hear them. They ramble on about why would you, not believing in this and that.. And whatever, let them talk. It has no bearing on my decision and I mostly end up feeling bad that their lives haven’t gone in a positive direction in a way that they hoped. 

Post # 7
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9629 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I know what you mean, a guy (married guy) in my office recently said to me, “You two are so happy together, why would you want to ruin it by getting married?” 

Surprised 

Post # 8
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748 posts
Busy bee

Yeah, I get that question too. I tell them it’s because I’m past the point where I’m all about the fun and games, I’m at a point where I want peace, quiet, and the comfort of a family with the love of my life. Most of the people who ask me are party kids, so they quickly shut up after they read between the lines (that they’re immature for even asking me that).

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