Why do I change my mind everyday regarding what type of ring I want?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@WeddingPea:  Lol! There’s so many beautiful ring options out there! I guess it’s a good thing if you change your mind that way no matter which ring your SO gets you you’ll love(or once have loved haha) 

Post # 4
2004 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@WeddingPea:  I hear ya!  I am already engaged with my dream ring that FI had custom made, but I sometimes regret not getting a halo, then a pear, then a gemstone, then a moissanite.  Luckily, FI knows how indecisive I am when it comes to fashion, jewelry, etc.  so he is okay with me getting a few different RHR’s over the year with different styles of setting and stones.

Post # 5
5935 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

There are so many different rings that it’s hard not to change your mind. I’ve been engaged for over a year and still wonder if I should have gotten a different style. In the end I always look at my ring and know it’s perfect for me though.

Post # 6
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

There really are so many options and the Internet certainly doesn’t make it easy to stop shopping! Have you tried anything on? That really helped my FI and I narrow the field…

Post # 7
679 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I agree- get out there and try things on! I never had the feeling that I’d found “The One” when I was trying on dresses… but I absolutely did with my ring. And it was something quite different than how I had imagined my dream ring! I never would’ve known otherwise.

Post # 8
1234 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@WeddingPea:  I am going to guess that you are afraid of regretting your decision. Nothing wrong with exploring your options. I suggest going back to the roots, what did you first envision – what have you always wanted? 

For example, I have always know that I want a solitaire, but when I knew the ring was coming, I went into overdrive and started considering all kinds of things… Luckily, DH knows me and got me my solitaire <3. and I am glad he did, it’s what I have always envisionned for myself 🙂

We can’t have it all (who doesn’t wish, right? haha), but get something that IS YOU 😉

Post # 9
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@WeddingPea:  omg i hear ya. i cannot make up my mind. there’s so many gorgeous options it’s overwhelming, plus i really want it to feel like ‘me’ or ‘the one’ and it’s so hard to choose! trying on really does help, and I feel like internet browsing can actually make you way more indecisive. i love cushions in photos but not how it looked on my hand. and a ring I tried on in person (maybe the one??) i loved, but the stock photo i wouldn’t have looked at twice.

good luck! hope I can make up my mind soon too!!!!

Post # 14
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

You and me both, sister. I’ve been happy with my round cut but I want something more unique so now my mind is torn between asscher, oval, and radiant. So I bought CZ and topaz versions of all three so hopefully I can make up my mind lol.

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