Post # 1
I was came across a thread today that made me ask why do us bees love being married or in a relationship?
I will start…
I love that I have someone to come home too. I love that I have someone to go to bed and wake up with. I realized that DH is truly my best friend. We can laugh until we are blue in the face. We can finish eachothers sentences, and there is one small thing I appreciate most, is when we are out together and one of us is ready to go, we don’t need to say a word…we can talk with our eyes and we get it.
He always gives me grest advice, I hate to admit it sometimes, but when there is something going on in my life…he is always right! I know this sounds so cliche but he makes me a better person and all I want to do is see him happy and I know he wants the same. I think its important when two people are married or in a relationship that they want similar things
I would really like to hear why people don’t want to be married or in a relationship..I get that its not for everyone and hell yea its a lot of work, but for someone like my DH and all your husbands/SOs its worth it! Sure its easy to get married and have a wedding…its staying married thats the hard part. If marriage is going to be anything like the past 10 years… we got this in the bag ..haha…it won’t be a piece of cake but there is no one else I would rather be with…
Ok ..I am done being a mush LoL
Post # 3
@Daizy914: I totally agree: it’s really nice to have someone to come home to, and to have someone to count on to watch my back. 🙂
Post # 4
@Daizy914: I love having a partner in life, a partner in crime, and a partner in general. It’s amazing to know that I have someone who loves me exactly as I am and never tries to change me. I love that he laughs at me when I’m being silly and that he will eat anything I cook (seriously, he is an awesome eater). I love that he is vocal about his appreciation for everything I do for him/us and I love that I have someone in my life that means more to me than myself. I love that he is always encouraging me to do things I find interesting and that he supports my unhealthy obessions (mainly reading, writing, and Poe). He’s my best friend, my heart, and I wouldn’t change that for anything.
Post # 5
@Daizy914: It is so nice just having someone you can goof off with without fear of judgment. We can be so silly and not act our age at all and it’s the best thing in the world. Also, I know that he will think im beautiful no matter how i feel about myself at that moment. I dont have to worry about looking perfect everytime he comes around. It’s also great to know that whatever we fight about WILL get solved and that neither one of us is going to walk away from this relationship. It’s a very secure feeling. dating is fun, but having someone there for you on a regular basis is sooooo much better
Post # 6
I love being married to my husband because his love for me is far beyond anything I knew what love could be. We dated ten years before we got married (better late than never, right?), so we knew each other inside-out before saying our vows. My husband treated me with respect, love, and was my biggest supporter before our wedding. Now that we’re married, I feel like that love has intensified and grows stronger every day. He accepts my quirkiness and flaws, and embraces them. When I wake up every morning, I smile because I’m waking up next to him. It’s like a dream that keeps coming true every single day.
Post # 7
@Gingerlocks: lol same for us! We got married on our 10 year anniversary! We waited because we were 18 when we met so we wanted to finish school and have full time jobs, save money-we always knew we were going to have a big wedding. Its always been our dream. We always needed to save money for an apartment. I feel like I am having a sleepover every night with my bestfriend lol
Post # 8
@Daizy914: I love waking up to someone who can look me up and down in the mornings and honestly say “you’re the most beautiful thing I will lay eyes upon today”. We muck around all the time, it’s never a dull moment with him. Above everything else, he makes me feel validated. He makes me feel worth it.