Why do you love your SO/ FI/ DH? Sweet things you do for each other :)

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Why do you love the main man in your life? There is no one reason. it is a host of different reasons ranging from his sense of humor to his good looks to his loving nature to how fun he is to hang out with.

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him? He cooks, and I always appreciate that about him. He also is family oriented and does anything I ask his help with. He also is great at leaving love notes and texting me throughout the day just to say how much he loves me.

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you? I always help him when he needs it, and I support him 110%. I also try to bake his favorite things when I have the chance. He is lucky to have me because I have helped him gain some confidence to say no when people are running over him. He has always been passive and a people pleaser, and while I like that quality, there are time when he doesn’t realises he is being a doormat, and I have helped him see the difference so he can be confident in saying no and keeping his self worth.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I love my FI because he understands and accepts me as my true self, because he makes me laugh, and because he has an infectious passion for life.

Every night when he comes upstairs for bed he always brings me a glass of water.  He is lucky to have me because I get up early on the weekends to feed the cats and do laundry while he has a sleep-in.  (I know that isn’t a huge deal, but it’s those little sweet things every day that add up!)

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Just flipped my calendar and found this note 🙂 He got me this calendar before the new year, the note must have been in there for a long time.  Its the simple things!

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Why do you love the main man in your life? He’s usually a very positive person and in a good mood. He’s a very hard worker and always wants to cuddle. We have been through a lot in our time together (7 years) and he’s just my best friend in the world. I know he loves me and will love me forever, he’s the person I know will always be there, even when we are really pissed eachother! Also he makes me eggs over easy so good and orders for me when we go to our usual spots with out having to ask me what I want.

 

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him? He is always saying or texting me that he loves me, we are always playing around, and I just love it when I’m able to make him laugh hard LOL. I’m somewhat of a comedian and get a kick out of him laughing.

 

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you? He is very lucky to have me LOL. I may not be the most pleasant person to always be around, I can get naggy and bitchy, but I do it because I love him. I always make sure I make him something to eat when he gets home, I lay his laundry out for him every morning, I am sure to get his favorite snacks whenever I do a Target run and make sure he doesn’t have to worry about running out of any kind of toiletry! I also plan our dates 🙂

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

This is long, sorry but there are a LOT of reasons. 

Why do you love the main man in your life?

So many reasons. A few that really stand out…he is a single father of SIX amazing kids and he takes great care of them. He works hard for his family and loves being with them. Another is he takes care of me. I never ask him for a thing and he steps up the second he knows something is wrong. Example, my laptop went out 2 weeks before school started and he shows up at my house with a new one. Total surprise! Also, he makes me laugh like no one else. He does something to me no one else has ever done. He excites me. He gets my blood rushing. That is what I feel love feels like. When that happens, and LASTS, that is love. Last but not least, he lets me shoot all of his new guns first. Any woman who has a gun fanatic as a SO will understand just how important this is! Lol

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him?

Perfect example, he calls me yesterday and says “GUESS WHAT?!” I get all worked up and he just says “I love you” in the most sweetest voice. I just happened to be having a crappy day and it all changed because of his phone call. He brings me lunch at work whenever he is close by, anything I need he gets it for me. He brought me advil the other day because I didn’t feel well and didn’t want to go to the store.

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you?

I write him poetry. He loves it. I plan things for us, little surprises. He tells me I make him feel like a good man and father and I make him feel like he will be a great husband. I don’t know how I do this but whatever it is…it sure means the world to him. He tells me I am a kind gentle soul and loves how I am with his kids. 

 

P.S. we don’t live together yet lol

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Why do you love the main man in your life?

He is kind, funny, always there to cheer me up if I’m down. I’ve never had such a great “cheerleader” in my life. He has stepped in as a co-parent (I have a 11 year-old son) and we are so blessed to have him in our lives. 

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him?

A few months back I had a rough weekend. I’m not a big fan of Monday’s because FH is at work and well I miss him. He sent me flowers on a Monday with a funny card, “Because Mondays don’t have to suck.” We were long distance for the first half of our relationship (3,000 miles). I had gone into the ER with a twisted ovary the day before Thanksgiving. He was due to fly in the that afternoon, I called him saying I was about to have surgery and I would understand if he wanted to change his flight for when I felt better. He told me to “Buck up, men can be nurses too and he’ll take care of me.” Hook, line, and sink. I love this man. 

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you? 


We leave each other notes if we miss each other in the mornings or afternoons. When we were long distance he once said “Hey, if you end up making me cookies then all those yesteryear tough-love moments WAS WORTH IT!!” I made my famous (yes they are awesome) chocolate chip cookies and overnighted them to him. When he made the move I helped pay for the one way flight (he was jobless when he first got out here). I love him and couldn’t imagine my life without him. 

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Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Forgot to add, I really do not like cleaning up after making dinner. His rule, “You made it, I clean it up.” 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Backyard Forest

Why do you love the main man in your life?

We are very connected and have the same values. He makes me laugh and is the most respectful and caring person. We have a lot in common. He’s everything I wanted to find in a man and more. Plus he’s a sexy man’s man and you can’t go wrong with that! 🙂 

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him?

He is really thoughtful and always wants to spend time together. Even if he’s going to run a small errand he will ask me to come with him so we can be together. He always comes in and kisses me before he leaves in the morning. If he knows I’ve had a bad day, his first priority when he comes home is a long hug. When we first started dating he wrote me poems all of the time. They’re reserved for special occassions now, but they mean the world to me. I also love how much he’s willing to help out my family and spend time at my family events. 

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you?

He does hard labour so I always spend time giving him massages. I make dinner every night and always try and plan around something he loves (this is my choice, I love cooking!!). I always send him random texts throughout the day (he does this too). I make him cookies occassionally (his favourite thing ever). We both try and always tell each other how appreciative we are of everything we do and how grateful we are for each other. 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

Why do you love the main man in your life?

GAH! I love him because he treats me like no one has ever treated me before. He tells me everyday a few times a day at least how much he loves me. He wants to spend time with me whenever he can, and he doesn’t everrrrrr blow me off for his friends. He calls me his best friend and I am his. 

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him?

Where to start? Swoon.. He tells me he loves me all the time. He has little nicknames for me that are so personal and adorable. We pretend to wrestle around a lot and tickle each other. We play a game where I pretend to be a zombie and I chase him around. It legitimately scares him sometimes. (I make really good zombie noises.. XD). He’s very protective and genuinely cares about my welfare and my success in life. He accepts my crazy. Which is a lot to accept considering I chase him around and pretend to be a zombie.

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you?

I used my cooking/baking skills to win him over. 😛 I provide homemade cupcakes and layered cakes and lasagna and various dinners and his favorite enchiladas and breakfasts and pastries. 

 

 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

@MissMaya:  It’s really hard to just name ONE thing that he did just tonight that makes me love him lol.  Let’s see…I was on the phone with our cable company for 30 mins, and when they started giving me bad customer service he took over and stuck up for me, and let this company know of their bad customer service lol.  He served me dinner, he made me tonight the BEST frozen margarita I’ve had in a looooooong time.  We kissed and cuddled while I just watched my favorite shows….which I had to DVR bc he wanted to watch the Pirates play Tues and that’s when my fav shows come on (new girl, mindy, bk99 lol).

 

This week my SO had a career fair and interview.  He wore a fancy new suit, I took pics and set them to his mom, and I drove him to and from his work where this was, bc he ususally rides his bike but he was looking so fresh and clean I didn’t want him to get dirty before his interviews lol!!

 

This is why I say it’s hard to say that there is a rountine we are in and that he does xyz or I do xyz bc we love each other….except that I love to cook whatever I want and he will eat it, and I hate doing the dishes so he does that too 😀  LOVE MY SO!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Why do you love the main man in your life?

 

He’s freaking amazing, more than I can articulate on here.

 

What are some of the sweet things that he does that makes you realize how lucky you are to have him?

 

Tonight, a good friend of mine whom I haven’t seen for a long time flew in for an impromptu visit. FI went out and picked up a bottle of our favorite wine, Moscato just for us 🙂

 

He bought me flowers…for no reason 🙂

 

He kissed me romantically while doing some mundane tasks at home and we spent some time enjoying each other 🙂

 

And this was all within the last few days!

 

What are the sweet things you do for him? Why is he lucky to have you? 

 

I try to bring him a treat here and there like a milk shake or his favorite beer from time to time.

 

I leave little love notes for him to discover — he does this too 🙂

 

I don’t know, I’m coming up short on things I do for him…he’s really showing me up!

 

 

 

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