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Why does David's bridal get such a bad rep?

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    OceanStorm    11/15/08   NJ

    I must have odd luck or something.  I've been to three David's Bridal (NJ and MD) and have had wonderful times at all of them.  The one near where I live right now is particularly helpful - going above and beyond to help me let out/reorder bridesmaid dresses (after a few too many snacks).  When I bought my wedding dress, I had a Saturday afternoon appointment and had no trouble.  I had to wait about 20 mins for service, but that doesn't bother me (I had fun talking with my mom and sis and looking at bridesmaid and mom dresses).  When I had my consultant, she went out of her way to make sure I tried on every dress as many times as I wanted and I was not rushed in any way, shape, or form.  I went to another DB with a friend who needed to "register" her bridesmaid dresses (in MD).  We didn't have an appointment, it was a Saturday, and they were as lovely and sweet as pie.  We had a great time, laughed a lot, and got everything done.

    So I'd say judge for yourself.  I went to four or five independent boutiques before David's and none of them impressed me.  I will add, though, that if I had Alfred Angelo dedicated stores near me, I'd have given them a try.

     
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    Woonendez    6/21/08   Los Angeles, CA

    i tried david's bridal in the very beginning of my dress search, and needless to say, i was unimpressed. the salesgirl was not very helpful in giving me any suggestions, but i guess, like all stores, it depends on who you get. i would say if you don't have a really solid idea of what you want, then david's bridal is a good place to start, at least so you know what it's like and so you can start narrowing down what looks good on you. let's face it, david's bridal is so big that they actually do have a lot of sizes and the stuff you try on might actually be closer to your real size, unlike other stores where they only have 1 gown in a way too big sample size and they have to lobster claw you with clips from a hardware store to keep the dress in place.

     

    i bought my dress from 'Bridal Elegance' in torrance, and the ladies there were very helpful in pulling dresses off the rack and finding dresses that fit my budget and style.  the lady who owns it is very nice, and they have a pretty large selection, even though it is not as gigantic a space as david's. i've been to at least a dozen stores in the los angeles/orange county area, and that one by far was the best experience.   

     

    also, if you're still trying to look at various styles, there's a place called 'Pebbles Bridal' in woodland hills, and they have racks and racks of dresses. that place is more of a 'help yourself' kind of place, where they give you some help when you're ready to try on, but for the most part leave you alone to browse the racks. i don't know what kind of shopper you are, but i kind of prefer that myself because i don't like people breathing down my back or pressuring me (unless i ask them!). 

     
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    briocean    November 15, 2008   Philadelphia, PA

    I just came back from Davids Bridal in East Brunswick, NJ and was turned away.  We went 1 hr before closing but was turned away b/c the "racks" were closed.  It's seemed fishy because a friend of mine went an hour before a few weeks ago and was able to try on dresses.  I personally called the Manager and she basically apologized but explained that the dresses were too heavy to bring down and they didn't want to show any when it was an hour before closing.  They also didn't even try to ask me to make an appointment or to come back in.  Customer Service lacks in all retail but it's particularly bad at Davids Bridal.  So beware in going to the one in East Brunswick.  It's unfortunate b/c I was willing to spend money on a dress but was turned away. 

     
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    loralie    April 25, 2009   Estes Park, CO

    I went to David's and the reason I only went there once was this.  I tried on three dresses - one of them, I really liked.  I was upfront with the consultant that I was not under any circumstances going to buy a dress that day, but it seemed like as soon as I had a dress on, the "hard sell" started.  Before I knew it, she'd put a veil & tiara on me and was going on and on about how the sale was ending soon, and how good that dress looked on me.  I asked how much the dress was, and she informed me that everything was $1300.  It took me a couple minutes to find out just the dress was only $800.  The $1300 was for the crinoline, strapless bra, veil and a $200 tiara.  

    The other thing I really don't like about the company is the alteration prices seem a bit high.  

    I ended up buying my dress from a local boutique - they didn't pressure me to buy the dress, I ended up spending less than $800 on a higher quality dress that I loved more.  And alterations are included.  Yeah, you read that right.  My bridesmaids are getting their dresses from there too, and their alterations are included as well.  

    So there you have it - the reason I personally don't like David's is because I wanted to buy a dress, not a used car. 

     
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    CarolineG    10/12/2008   Phoenix, AZ

    I didn't buy my wedding gown from them, but send my two BMs there for their dresses because they live on opposite coasts and have two very different body types. I figured they could get whatever dress was flattering on them, but in the same color (Marine).

    My sister visited two different David's stores and said the quality was non-existent, the samples were in terrible shape -- torn seams, broken zippers, etc. -- and there are two different versions of the color Marine, which I didn't know and could have totally screwed me on a larger bridal order with different people in different places.

    Plus, it just seems that since so many brides buy their dresses through David's, your dress will not be unique or YOURS in any way -- it will be the exact same dress that thousands upon thousands of brides are wearing. At least a gown bought elsewhere will probably be made on a smaller scale. 

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    HistoryBride    6/27/09   Plymouth, MI

    I was initially excited about going to David's because I figured that they had a good selection of bridal and bridesmaids dresses so that I could gather ideas.  I was initially put off because they immediately stop you at the door to gather a bunch of information from you, you can't even browse the styles before getting jumped. 

     I tried on several dresses and even found one that I liked, but the saleswoman tried very hard to push me into buying.  Even if it had been "the one," it was my first time out and I wasn't ready to be done with my dress shopping experience yet.

     Since then I've been back to get some ideas for BM dresses and got awkwardly stalked the entire time and forced to reregister because I wans't registered at that specific store.  When we didn't find anything we left and I got a phone call 10 minutes later from a hurt and slightly anxious saleslady who wanted to know if there was anything wrong and if she could write anything down for us.

     They are a good store for what they are: a large chain bridal store with a few choices at fairly good prices.  You can find a diamond in the rough there, but it can be difficult.

     
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    MissAlbany    October 11, 2008   Schenectady, NY

    If you're looking for the princess treatment, don't go to Davids.  The consultants there are obv hit or miss.  I think that a bridal shop will be more likely to give lots of personal attention to you because that is what is necessary for them to stay in business.  Lets face it, they rarely can compete on price.  If you like the dresses at Davids I think you should go for it, and I know it's hard to block out the judgy-ness (not a word ) of other people.  For me, I found a dress at Davids that I loved for $400.  The next closest thing I found that made me feel as pretty and bridal at a boutique was $2000.  There was no way in my mind that an extra $1600 was worth a consultant who was a little more pleasant to deal with. 

    Also, I just dealt with Davids on alterations.  Not an experience that I would want to go through again, I was kept waiting for hours since they were shortstaffed and I got attitude because I didn't bring my veil even though they never told me to, but again, I didn't go in there expecting to be treated like a princess so it didn't really bother me.  If I knew someone else who could have done alterations, I probably would have gone that route but I trust that Davids will do good alterations too. 

     
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    cassiereanne    10/11/2008   Leavenworth, KS

    I bought my dress at Davids Bridal, and I was not wanting to spend lots of money.  Fashion is important to me, but I feel I don't need to spend $1000 on a dress I am going to wear one day....

    We went on the $99 sale day...and I found a gorgeous dress, exactly what I wanted.  I got to take the dress home that day.

    I bought the dress 9 months ahead, so in the mean time..I tried it on often, and it got a little dirty on the train, etc.  They give complimentary cleans before the wedding!  I was so impressed!  My dress is actually there now..I pick it up Sept.11!  WOOOO!

    Can't wait...don't listen to the stories, everyone has different experiences everywhere they go.  I will say though.  DO NOT GO ON SATURDAY!  It's complete insanity!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I went to David's Bridal and tried on a few dresses.  The dresses there weren't really my style, but I did find a couple that were nice.  My problem was that because of the quality of the sewing, they just did not lay right on me. I suppose you get what you pay for, so I shouldn't have been too surprised!

     

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