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I have had this happen to me in the past!  When I asked "what possessed you to invite him???" he said something like, "I thought it was going to be fun, and figured the more the merrier!"

Go figure....but one thing I have defintiely learned about men is that if something is important to you, never assume he knows that it is, and why  - tell him!  A well planned "I'm so excited that we're going to go out and have an entire evening to ourselves next week!" might help prevent misunderstandings. 

Of course if you do that and he still invites folks along, that's another story!   How to deal with that would probably depend on the circumstance. 

Not sure if this actually helps but wanted you to know, you're not alone!

My FI invited a friend to live with him for six weeks just as he asked me to move in with him... That caused drama for awhile!! We got over it though and he realized that it was kind of stupid.