Post # 1
Why don’t men understand that there are some things that are special and should be between the two of you and not everyone else?!
Have you ever had the issue of your FI or SO inviting someone along on a date night or just a special occasion without asking you?
Post # 3
I have had this happen to me in the past! When I asked “what possessed you to invite him???” he said something like, “I thought it was going to be fun, and figured the more the merrier!”
Go figure….but one thing I have defintiely learned about men is that if something is important to you, never assume he knows that it is, and why – tell him! A well planned “I’m so excited that we’re going to go out and have an entire evening to ourselves next week!” might help prevent misunderstandings.
Of course if you do that and he still invites folks along, that’s another story! How to deal with that would probably depend on the circumstance.
Not sure if this actually helps but wanted you to know, you’re not alone!
Post # 4
My FI invited a friend to live with him for six weeks just as he asked me to move in with him… That caused drama for awhile!! We got over it though and he realized that it was kind of stupid.
Post # 5
Yup! The FI does that all the time. Check out my post about going to his friend’s wedding on our honeymoon. He doesn’t get it yet as to why I don’t want to see our friends/family on our HM. He will though. They just don’t get it!
Post # 6
Lol, I feel like I’m going to have to tell my SO he can’t invite this girl on our honeymoon… She invites herself on SO and I’s date nights, to our house, etc. She invited herself and six of her friends (none of whom SO or I know) to a house party at SO and I’s new house this Friday… Some people!