- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
So, we are 26 days away from our wedding and it seems like everyone besides me is freaking out.
My MOH is pissed at me because my she didn’t get invited to a shower that my step-dads family threw for me. The only person there outside of my step-dad’s family was my FMIL, his family likes to keep things small and family only (not even my grandmothers came). So instead of calling me to tell me she felt bad about being left out, she just texts me: “I’m really hurt that you didn’t invite me to your shower, the pictures look nice though.” Really passive agressive. I text her why, and no response. I try to call her, no answer. I text her asking her to call me when she gets a chance,she just sends a text asking if it is important cause she’s at work. I text her back a better explanation of what happened & why she wasn’t invited, no reply at all. I refuse to get on my knees and beg for her forgiveness.
So my mom & 3 siblings are renting a cabin this weekend. It’s a 2.5 hour drive away. I ask her if FI and I can come up on Saturday for the day and spend the night and hang out part of Sunday too. Nope. We aren’t welcome to spend the night because we aren’t married yet, and she won’t allow us to sleep together around my siblings until we are married. Argh!! I’m pretty sure they know we live together and sleep together every night & we will be married in 26 days! She wants us to drive up for the day and leave the same night, but 5 hours of driving to spend the afternoon up there doesn’t seem worth it.
I’m so frustrated by everyone’s behavior. I can’t take anymore. Does this happen to everyone right before the wedding? I feel like I’m the one who should be freaking out since we wanted only 75 people at our wedding and now (thanks to my mom!) our acceptees are currently at 111, and could potentially grow to 122!! I just want to cry, and scream at the same time.
Sorry for the rant. I’m done now.