(Closed) Why is he so stubborn! Ugh! Vent and Worry

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If it makes you feel better, it seems like MOST trains are running on schedule.


I totally get your frustration though–FI seems to think he’s invincible! It drives me crazy–he goes out of the house completely dressed inappropriately for the weather, no scarf, no hat…okay, now I sound like his mom! 🙂

Post # 4
6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I understand your worry and frustration with him.

However, I would probably be the same way. We have snow squalls and winter storms all the time and I never change my day to day business because of it – but my attitude may be because we get them often. But then again our schools almost NEVER close and everything is still open and running no matter how bad a storm may be!

Post # 7
250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

*hugs* they are so stubborn sometimes. I hope he’ll be ok. Keep us updated.

We got about 8 inches so far here in Northeast PA and due to the winds and everything we’re under a state of emergency. Fiance works at a hotel and has been clearning snow all day, and he texts me to say maybe he’ll drive over here later after he cleans up. Granted, it’s a 5 minute drive, but I’m like, REST. Stay home and be safe!! But does he listen? Nooooo, lol

Post # 8
2513 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Guys can be EXTREMELY stubborn and tend to worry a lot less than us. A lot of them just don’t expect or prepare for the worst, because it doesn’t cross their minds! I know EXACTLY what you’re saying though. I kinda wrote a post on it the other day. (sorry, not to propogate my post on your thread, but it did address this sort of thing).

I hope he makes it home OK! I’m sorry you’re getting a blizzard. We got one of those here on Christmas Eve that completel ruined all Christmas plans. Stay safe!!

Post # 10
1566 posts
Bumble bee

Haha, Fiance and I are at work in NYC and probably going to be here late into the evening. I’ve been watching it snow out of the window, and it does look pretty heavy. For my sake, I hope your Fiance is right and everyone is just overreacting…getting stuck at work would not be fun. 

Post # 11
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

Joeswifey, while it’s still daylight, light a few candles. That way, just in case, you can see to get other lights lit! (Plus, open flame can warm things up!)

I bet your husband will be home soon. don’t worry!

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