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Why is nothing going right today?!

posted 1 year ago in Emotional
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    BeesGees    April 2010  

    We're behind on our RSVPs, I'm missing about 20  people, which makes me nervous because we guaranteed the hotel at least 100 to lock in the price and date for our wedding.

    We still don't have the rehersal dinner planned.

    I'm trying to find someone to do hair for the ladies in FI's family for a reasonable price and also are willing to come to the house to do it.

    My bachelorette spa day is causing stress because of costs (some are stretched for cash, while others have no money concerns at all).

    The check we had planned on clearing to pay for FI's family's rental house the week of the wedding won't clear for SIX WEEKS, which means we have to try and pull a couple extra grand out of our @$$es. <---Now he's all stressed out and is answering me with one word answers.

    And dresses? Like a crazy person, I bought a second dress, because I didn't think I should wear the first one after all. I changed my mind, decided to sell dress number two, thinking I'd get at least half of what I spent back, but  can't unload the thing to save my life. Only Nigerian Craigslist scammers want to buy it. Which makes me think, "God, I REALLY must have awfully tacky taste in dresses!"

    We're a few weeks out from our wedding at this point and it seems like all the $#it that could go wrong is starting to go wrong. And to top it all off, my stupid job is a stupid nightmare right now.

    Ugh. I just needed to get that off my chest. Is anyone else starting to get the crazies? I've been relatively chill about things until now.

     
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    whitesonnet    June 26, 2010   Detroit, MI

    Sorry to hear you have so much pressing in right now! Your rehearsal dinner doesn't have to be anything fancy, you know. At this point, I'm thinking pizza because we are strapped for extra spending. And have you tried listing your dress over here on the 'Bee classifieds instead of CL?

    I think today is just a mega stress day for a lot of people. It's finally sunny here and everyone and their mother was out driving like idiots today. I had to honk my way onto my exit because no one would let me in for like a half mile!

     
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    Daisylynn    August 22, 2010   Monterey, California

    Ugh!  You need a breather!  Hummm try looking on yelp.com for restaurants in your area... then you'll get reviews of places and wont have to eat there to know that it is good.  Hopefully that can help you narrow it down some.  Maybe for the spa day everyone can just go get manis and pedis and lunch together and that should make it cheaper for those who are strapped for cash.  Maybe if you and FI could talk and then give each other back rubs y'all would feel better;)  I haven't had too many freakouts yet.... more just my BM's pulling jokes on me.... *sigh* you gotta love girlfriends... they forget that pay back is a B#$@%:)  *HUGS* hun!  Remember this to will pass!

     

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