Post # 1
This is quite embarassig for me, and you bees will be the only ones who know about these feelings.. but whenever I see a new couple get engaged or married, I feel jealous!
I am engaged! I am 3.5 months out from the wedding! WHY AM I JEALOUS!!! Every part of me is so happy to be close to our wedding day after being engaged since Fall 2012. This is the time that I have been waiting for, I should be feeling on top of the world! I can understand my tinge of jealousy about already married couples, because I want to be married to my FI SOOOO much at this point.. but a girl on my facebook just got engaged and has set her wedding date for two years from now!
Ugh .. weddings bring out the strangest of emotions. Sorry bees, just had to let that out and I am sorry if it sounds rediculous!!
Post # 3
@Seashells7: LOL…. I said this to my FI last night. I saw a couple just got engaged and I was a slight version of jealous. I think for me at least, it’s how it’s all so sparkly and exciting and new. Just like with anything, the newness wears off and of course you’re still happy, but nothing beats that cloud 9 period immediately after.
Post # 4
Just happened to me too. I was like WTH is wrong with me?!?! Glad to know I’m not alone.
Post # 5
@Seashells7: I’ll be honest, I don’t get it lol. I was constantly jealouse before I was engaged, but not now.
Post # 6
Maybe it’s that excited feeling you know she’s having when you first get engaged but you have your wedding day butterflies to be excited for all over again. Nothing wrong with a “little” jealousy haha
Post # 7
haha I am glad that I am not alone!
I absolutely hate the feeling and usually do not get jealous so this came over me and all I could think was..wait WHAT are you feeling right now?!
Post # 7
Seashells7: Totally get where you’re coming from. I am exactly the same!!!
Post # 8
Lol i get u! I get a bit jealous when i hear pple getting angaged! And i amalready married!! I guess its just the excitement of something new! I’m excited for the person n jealous at the same time!
Post # 9
I have this too, it’s so weird! We are three weeks from our wedding now and I had this weird envious feeling when a friend got engaged last week. I think it’s because our ‘engagement’ is nearly over (even though that’s because we are going to be married!) whereas theirs is just starting. I am also weirdly obsessed with comparing my engagement ring to those of my newly engaged friends, when I never do this with my married friends!