(Closed) Why wait until now??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow, sorry you are having to deal with that. I would not make everyone on the boat wait for him though.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

That just sucks.  I’m so sorry.  Don’t let it ruin your day though!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Tell the jerk to take a cab.  If he can’t be considerate, communicate properly, and stick to what he told you, that’s what he gets.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

This is so typical. We had someone tell us their wife lost all her ID documents and wouldn’t be coming on the day of the catering final numbers, and then TWO DAYS before the wedding, called us to let us know she’d be there after all (and they were flying in, so I couldn’t be all “um, you’re out of luck”. And we had two people add plus ones 10 days after the RSVP deadline, and one person reneg on a “No” RSVP, also 10 days late.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

While I agree his behavior is not ideal, I disagree with placing his female guest at a separate table, especially when he is the only person she will know at the wedding. It is not HER fault he is such a flake, and even though it is your wedding, she is still a guest and should be treated as such. 

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