Why Why Why

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MrsWe:  my advice is stop talking to him.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@li612:  +1 He still loves you, so while you keep the lines of communication open via phone, e-mail, or FB he will continue to reach out to you to change your mind. My ex did this after we broke up, so I changed my number and e-mail and blocked him from everything. I wanted nothing to do with him.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yup, stop talking to him. You can control this situation. You don’t have to accept any communication from him at all.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@li612:  uhhh THIS. It’s fairly easy (if you truly want nothing to do with him). 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I don’t know why, but from what I remember,  he did not value you as a potential wife. He probably misses his comfort/ benefits of having you around :(.

Have you tried blocking contact? 

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsWe:  if you want him to leave you alone, why are you still talking to him?  break all communication with him (phone, email, text, etc) so that both of you can move on and find closure.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsWe:  Go no contact.  It’s not that hard.  Delete him, block him, stop talking to him.  Do what you have to do for him to get the message.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@MrsWe:  My advice is to go into your phone and block his number. 

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Why don’t you quit talking to him?  Ignoring him sends a pretty clear message to leave you alone.

I had lots of exes continue to try to talk to me, often they just wanted the benefits on the side without anything else.  If you keep talking to them and letting them in obviously they’ll keep talking to you.  IGNORE!

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@kes18:  +1.  Every single one of my exes did the same thing, too.  Almost all men do it, it’s just a game to see if they can get you back.  I never fell for that crap.  Ignoring is the best thing. 

Here is my theory – bad men are like a fungal infection – impossible to get rid of and will keep coming back.

Post # 13
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Get a new cell number, block him on social media (and his friends, so he can’t snoop through them).

It’s usually the only thing that helps!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Block his calls and texts or change your number…he will get the clue..hopefully. I had a wacko like this as well and I blocked him but he still found my work email and emialed me a “hi how are you” I just ignored it..

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