Why why why??? Need someone to talk to :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1112 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh no thats so sad Cry I think now would be a great time to yell and scream at him… and your sister. Hopefully it could give them a reality check. With 6 kids they seriously need to be more careful than that!!! DH and I live with family too, but we are always so incredibly careful to respect our aunt and to take care of her house and her belongings. I think that if people refuse to be respectful to their families they don’t deserve to live with them!

Post # 4
332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Sea Ranch Lodge

I am so sorry 🙁 Animals are like our babies, and I can’t imagine how hard it would be to deal with such a cruel passing. 

Hug your other pup a little closer, and I hope that you will find some peace and rest. 

Post # 5
8677 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m sorry.


18 years is a long time for a dog (126 in “human years”), especially a small dog. He had a good life with you, I bet.

Post # 6
6812 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Aw, I’m so sorry for you. I’m sorry that happened, I’m sorry your sister’s husband is an a-hole and I’m sorry that this happened so close to your wedding. *hugs*

Post # 7
1214 posts
Bumble bee

I am so sorry about your little dog.  It is devestating to lose one no matter how old, but especially when it is completely preventable.  I wonder sometimes who is actually the lucky one when we rescue a wonderful little pet.  I think its both, them and us.  Again, sorry for your loss.

Post # 8
1817 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He passed knowing he was loved. I’m so sorry for your loss. The loss of a family member is never easy…especially when they are the fur baby kind.

Post # 9
311 posts
Helper bee

@in_the_enchanted_forest:  first I am so so sorry we had to put my 18 year old chihuahua down and I was a wreck after even knowing it was coming so for something like that to happen I would really lose it! And I suggest you do! 


Their or behavior is not ok! Yell at him and tell him to finish what he starts and to wear a fucking condom!

Post # 10
721 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Hyperventilate:  1+ agreed! my dog is like my baby i would die, no matter how old he was

Post # 11
1666 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@in_the_enchanted_forest:  Losing a dog, no matter how old they are, is never easy. Losing them because of something that was avoidable is even worse.

You brother-in-law probably didn’t intend for this to happen, but he’s an asshole none-the-less. What if it had been one of his kids that got stuck in there?! Would he have bothered to cover the trench or fill it in properly then?

Writing has always been cathartic for me. Write down everything you are feeling. It could wind up helping you heal in the future. And talk to your FI when you need to. Your friends won’t always be so busy with work and, if they truly care, they will be willing to help you through this.

Just take each day slow and do your best. I’m really sorry. 🙁

Post # 12
1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

I am so sorry this happened.  My heart aches for you tonight.  

Post # 13
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so sorry 🙁

Post # 14
295 posts
Helper bee

Oh I’m so sorry! Losing a pet is terrible enough let alone in such a preventable way. I applaud you for the restraint you’ve shown because in no way would I be able to not just about kill that asshole.

Post # 15
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@Hyperventilate:  +1, I was just thinking that! I hope my furbaby lives that long.

OP, you can tell by your post how much you loved those doggies and how well you treated them. I am so sorry that this happened and I would be feeling exactly how you are right now.

Post # 16
457 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

My poor doggie of 12 years old last December on Christmas Eve, right after we had a get together in my apartment, had passed away. I had her since i was 13 years old until i was 25 years old, so she pretty much grew up with me. So I know how you feel right now! 🙁 

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