(Closed) WHY? WHY? WHY?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2889 posts
Sugar bee

Sounds like you need some hugs and good luck! I hope it all works out.

Post # 4
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2641 posts
Sugar bee

So sorry.  I’m sure you’ll get it figured out.  It will work out in the end. 

May I ask, what your career fields are, to have job offers in Brazil and the Bahamas?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

haha, I wish I had problems like that, owning multiple houses and being offered a job in the Bahamas lol Kidding aside, it does sound like it will be stressful. I planned my wedding from a few states away and that was annoying enough. I can’t imagine countries apart!

Post # 7
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Im sorry, but you will figure it out! I hope everything works itself out!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Wow that does sound stressful! I think if you guys move so much anyway, you should just keep the venue you booked because what is to say you won’t move again? You can only change things so many times. Good luck though, and lots of hive hugs!

Post # 9
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682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh wow that does sound stressful! I would really consider hiring a wedding coordinator. That would help save your sanity and take some of the stress off you. Good luck!

Post # 10
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898 posts
Busy bee

I agree, very stressful and hiring a coordinator would certainly help with the stress. Hugs to you, and good luck.

Post # 11
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I feel your pain to a degree.  We have 2 houses to contend with and are trying to plan the wedding from Houston.  Wedding is destination.  Then the FI is a pilot and is gone most days of the week.  I’m stressing because he has to bid for his vacation and you are awarded vacation based on Seniority.  So we just bid last night and won’t find out till the end of the month if he has the wedding off!

If he doesn’t get the wedding off then he’ll go try to talk to the Chief Pilot and beg for the wedding day off.  I’m like I don’t care if how you do it but just get the wedding off.  Rehearsal dinner I don’t care if he misses. 

Jobs!!! You make it and it will work out!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

Stop what you are doing right now!  Now, research and hire a wedding planner!  With your schedules, that is the only way to truly save your sanity!

Good luck 🙂

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

chirico8664, it sounds like a planner will really help you cope with planning stresses and if anyone needs one it’s you!  But it also sounds as if you are an awesome mult-tasker so I am sure that things won’t be as bad as you fear.  Keep us posted and let us know if we can help with ideas to keep you on task and well organized, even in these super-tough circumstances!

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I agree with everyone who says to hire a wedding planner.  People plan weddings from afar every day.  You definetly sound like a smart girl, so I say take a deep breath (maybe have a drink) and come up with a plan to begin interviewing wedding planners if you are going to move and celebrate if you don’t, sounds like nothing is a definite just yet. Good Luck!

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