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    redherring    September 11, 2010   Pittsburgh, PA

    Look, I have to break in these shoes somehow! Going up and down the stairs to the basement and walking across the impressively irregular cement floor seems like an awesome strategy. And I learned that I need to do more trail running to build up the ankle strength needed to walk across grass :) I'm just hoping that the women doing my alterations (first fitting is tomorrow!) can suggest a strategy that will allow my dress to work with both the 4-inch heels and my bare feet, when I admit defeat and take the heels off.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I'm sure it will work with or without shoes.  It did for me!  I had what I thought were really beautiful heels, but once the ceremony was over I was cursing them out!  As soon as the formalities were over, those bad boys got thrown into a corner and I never thought about them again.  I tripped a couple times, not gonna lie.  But you figure it out and just keep on dancing :)

     
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    BunnyBrideToBe    December 3, 2011   Boston, MA

    Ha!  Love it!  I'm going through the same thing with mine.  Fortunately I'm no stranger to heels, but there's a possibility I'll cave at some point and have to go barefoot.  I did practice at a friend's wedding a couple weekends ago, but I got to sit for the ceremony :-)  My girlfriends decided that if your feet hurt, you're not drinking enough!  It...only works to a point.

     
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    arenyth    May 14, 2011   planning in CA, wedding in NJ

    HAHAH I do the same thing! I fold all my laundry in my 4inchers too, my fiance thinks I'm crazy!

     
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    animated_librarian    October 16, 2010   La Jolla, CA

    I keep my wedding shoes at the apartment that I am moving out of. When I get there I slip out of whatever shoes I am wearing and slip into my gold strappy heels. I have been packing in those bad boys for weeks! They felt pretty good at my fitting yesterday. I wish I could wear them to an event to break them in but there just aren't any in the near future that they would be appropriate for.

     
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    Georgia Bee    October 9, 2010   Atlanta

    I am going to buy a pair of rubber high-heeled platforms or wedge to wear for dancing.  Close enough in height so my dress won't drag, but much more comfortable.  I will also wear for our outdoor pics so my ivory silk peep toes don't get stained.

     
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    hope1275    August 7, 2010   NH

    @Georgia Bee: I wanted to do the same thing, but have been having a hard time finding an affordable pair. If you find some, please let me know! :)

     
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    ms.pascua    June 25, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @Georgia Bee: exactly what I was going to suggest!

    @hope1275: what is affordable? In Hawaii, where slippers are part of the "uniform", we can spend a pretty penny & not think twice. 

    For those looking, here are some by Roxy: http://www.roxy.com/family/index.jsp?cp=2818167&categoryId=3977991&f=Taxonomy%2FROXY%2F3977991&fbc=1&fbn=Taxonomy|Wedges

    Here are some by Cobian (but you need to find a store near you, or search online for a different seller, like Amazon):

    Good Luck!

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    I've always abided by the rule that shoes should not need to broken in. They should be comfortable the first time you wear them. However, if you aren't used to wearing 4" heels, you will need to train your feet, ankles and calves so you can walk gracefully in them.  Wear them as often as you can. 

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    awesome plan Redherring!  Great idea :)

    Anyhow...you can also remember to walk across the driveway gently.  That lightly scuffs them but not so much (don't do it alot) and it keeps them from being too slick.

      

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    @hope1275: I got these sandals from Victoria's Secret for my reception flip flops.  They're inexpensive and 3.5" heels...

    http://www.victoriassecret.com/ss/Satellite?ProductID=1265246461818&c=Page&cid=1265248215489&collAssetType=LBIProductSet&pagename=vsdWrapper

     
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    Georgia Bee    October 9, 2010   Atlanta

    @sboston06:These are perfect!

     
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    redherring    September 11, 2010   Pittsburgh, PA

    @sboston06: Those are awesome! Have yours arrived yet? Are they comfortable?

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    @redherring: Yes, I ordered them about a year ago.  They are pretty comfortable from what I can tell.  I bought two pairs and I'm keeping the white pair for the wedding but I wear the others everywhere else.  My foot does slide forward a bit which causes some irritation between the toes, but if you're used to thong flip flops, it's not bad at all.

     

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