will she hate me?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2541 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

there is nothing you can do. Things happen…people dont show up. She will understand.

Post # 4
5664 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

You aren’t messing up their numbers if it was only a week ago trust me. I would hope someone wouldn’t hate you over having to change your RSVP that’s quite ridiculous! Just have him follow up that you can’t make it.

Post # 5
11809 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@bebero:  if it was only a week ago surely the RSVP cut off is still a few weeks away?  I would call her, appologize for your error.  Says your husband will be attending but you regretfully decline.

Post # 7
45128 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It was only  a week ago. Contact her asap and tell her you screwed up.

Post # 8
5983 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@bebero:  No problem, call and explain, they’ll understand.

Post # 9
12483 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Call her ASAP and explain the situation.  Apologize, and be honest. If it was only a week ago, I doubt the deadline has passed to get her numbers to the caterer and other vendors!

Post # 10
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Just contact them and let them know you RSVPd for 2 but realized only DH can make it. No big deal.

Post # 11
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@bebero:  no big deal. if you had realized this a week before the wedding then I would say maybe but you’re fine!

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