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Will you be getting a push present?

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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    I was lusting over something on the internet last night while DH's brother's girlfriend (we'll just call her a hopefully FSIL :) ) was over and she told me to ask for it as a push present. I have heard of women receiving push presents but never actually thought about asking for one. 

    So, ladies- have/will any of you be receiving a push present?

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    My baby will be my present :) I know my husband would get me something if I asked, but since we're trying to buy a house and will have a new baby, I'd rather save the money.

     
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    camrie    September 5, 2010   Louisville

    Considering my due date is right after my birthday, probably not.

    Of course once we found out I was pregnant my husband got me a new car and the nice leather rocker I wanted so that's probably better than a push-present.

     
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    I don't think so.  I'd have to tell my husband to do it and I don't feel like doing that.  He might get me flowers or something but my guess is it will be so hectic that wouldn't happen until we got home.

     
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    Miss Sapphire    December 2009   Seattle

    He's hinted that he'd like to get me the other band for my wedding ring.  We'll see.  I'd love a right hand ring.  Kinda depends on finances though.

     
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    Nope. We were in a tight financial situation then anyway, so a present was the last thing on my mind.

    I would someday like a nice mother's ring.

     
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    wagamama    9/19/2009   Seattle

    Nope, my husband and I talked about this and it's just not for us.  Just like @artbee, our feeling is that our little boy will be the best present of all.

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    I have never heard of push presents before, I think I agree with @artbee on this one

     
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    Tatum    October 2, 2010   Minneapolis

    I heard of push presents (only in chick lit) and I brought it up to my husband who thought it seemed kind of dumb. I did tell him as soon as that kid's born, he's running out to buy my Jimmy Johns. Other than that I am not expecting any kind of present for giving birth.

     
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    SecretName    June 2010   California

    I like the idea of having a nice piece of jewelry or something to commemorate the birth of your child.  My friend got a ring with her child's birthstone. Its a very pretty piece of jewelry and she wears it often.  It will be something that can be passed down. 

    I don't like the idea of a push present just being the latest gadget/toy/purse etc that you want.  In 5 years, you will probably be "over that" and what was the point then?

    I guess I"m just sentimental.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Kind of. We are buying a treadmill which I've wanted for awhile and am VERY excited about. It isn't really a push present since we've been shopping for one for awhile and our friend is helping us get a refurbished one but I'm considering to be my push present ;)

     
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    mschampagne    February 2009   DC/Vail, Colorado

    not pregnant here but when I saw Bethanny Frankel's bangle bracelets from her hubby I loved  them! There was a gold bangle, a silver bangle and a pink bangle for each member of the family. That being said, for us I don't think it will be a priority unless we suddenly win the lottery and dont have to worry about the cost of babies/kids.

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Nope, our future baby would be our present.

     
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    Miss Lily    August 1, 2008   TX

    I think this just sounds crazy. lol. Maybe it's just me? I dunno. Yes, you went through 9 months of craziness and then the pain of childbirth, but then you come out the other side of it with a baby. I just don't understand the point of a "push present" and I kind of think it is unnecessary. That's just me...

     
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    sweetkate    August 29, 2009   San Jose, CA

    I don't know whether I would call it a push present or not, but I told DH that I would really like a ring or necklace that has all our birthstones in it.

    When we were shopping for our wedding bands there was a gentleman in there whose wife just had twins. He was getting her two sapphire bands, one in pink and one in blue. I thought that was a really nice idea.

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Nope. I thought about telling him this , but I know his answer:"who made this stupid thing up?"LOL As long as he helps with the baby, I'm good. Although an elliptical will be a mutal present. I wanted one before I got pregnant, and we both need to get in shape to chase baby, so why not?:)

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    The first time I'd ever heard of this was when my cousin had her baby last June. She is a nurse in maternity at the hospital where she gave birth and she told her husband about it before the baby was born. He got her a gorgeous ring with the baby's birth stone in it. I told FI about it later (even though I'm not pregnant and don't plan on TTC for a while) and he thought it was ridiculous. I thought it was kind of a sweet idea but I see his point too.

     
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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    Nope, $$ is really tight so we can't afford anything extra.

    BUT my birthday will be 2 weeks later so hopefully I get a nice little something :-)

     
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    Margaritachka    August 20, 2011   Los Angeles, California

    i love the idea :) We're all about investing in nice jewelry pieces in my family, so "push present" is just one of those excuses to get something...and really...pushing out a baby is hard work :) (or so my sister tells me...incidently, she got a gorgeous tennis bracelet from her hubby/in-laws/parents for the first baby, and an amazing Jaeger le-coulter watch for the second)

     

    My Fi (jewelr) has been doing them a lot recently. The eternity bands in the birthstone color as well as stacking rings using the birthstone as the main stone are quiet popular these days.

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    Yes, I already got mine.  DH couldn't stand keeping it a secret lol.  I got a really nice ring to commemorate it.  And somehow he knew about the whole Push Present concept all on his own and liked the idea. 

     

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