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Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage?

posted 3 months ago in Flowers
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  • poll: Should Mother of the Bride/Mother of the Groom wear Wrist Corsage?
    Yes. : (64 votes)
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    No. : (34 votes)
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    Other (please explain). : (7 votes)
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    hunnybee123    May 26, 2012  

    Hi, I recently learned that the mother of the bride and groom sometimes wear a corsage . How many of you will be doing this?

     
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    GreenGables    September 1, 2012  

    I had my florist plan for corsages for the mothers and grandmothers when preparing my quote - but I plan to ask all the moms and grandmothers if they actually want to wear one, and if they don't that's fine.  I think it's a nice way to distinguish them, but I think some people don't like corsages because they seem old-fashioned or prom-like.  You can also do pin-on corsages, but some people don't like those because they don't want to poke holes in the fabric of their dress or blouse.  I also went to a wedding where the bride's mother carried a very small bouquet during the ceremony, instead of wearing a corsage.

     
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    hunnybee123    May 26, 2012  

    @GreenGables:  Thank you for the great ideas! I think I like the idea of a corsage or pin better than a small bouquet. I suppose the pin-on corsage would be something like a boutonniere?

     
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    GreenGables    September 1, 2012  

    @hunnybee123:  Yes, it's basically worn like a boutonniere, but it's usually bigger and more lush - though you could have a simpler one that is similar in style to a boutonniere.  Google some images of "pin on corsage" and you'll see lots of different ideas and examples.  :-)

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    Both moms will be wearing one at our wedding.

     
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    nzgirl    January 14, 2012   Wellington, New Zealand

    My Mother, MIL, and grandmothers on both sides wore pin on corsages.  They were sort of like what my Father, FIL and grandfathers wore but were a little bit bigger and prettier :)

     
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    julies1949      

    I love Tussy mussy's instead of corsages. Pin on corsages can be difficult on lightweight or sheer fabrics.

    Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage? :  wedding mother of bride corsage Tussy Mussy

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    Our moms wore wrist corsages, and DH's grandmother wore a pin-on corsage. They all really enjoyed having some flowers to wear.

     
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    hunnybee123    May 26, 2012  

    @linguo42:  I would think that my mother and FI's mother would like it too, because it seems like a special detail. 

     
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    hunnybee123    May 26, 2012  

    @julies1949:  I had never hear of a tussy mussy before..

     
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    furtureffcaptwife    July 28, 2012   Texas

    We are doing this...they will be a wrist corsage attached to a bracelet that they can then keep to remind them of the special day :D

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    I'm not a fan of corsages so our moms carried nosegay bouquets (basically just a mini bouquet).

    Here's my moms. Don't mind the tears...

    Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage? :  wedding mother of bride corsage Mom

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    We didn't- I think they are kinda lame- reminds me of prom.

     
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    Roux    December 2, 2012   Ballarat, Australia

    We are planning on ordering 8! MOB, MOG, SMOB x2, 2 grandmothers, 2 special honorary grandmothers. Now I'm thinking maybe I should ask them first if they want one? I sort of wanted them to be a bit of a surprise on the day though. Hmm.

     
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    mrscheetos    June 10, 2012  

    Haven't decided this yet, though my mom said she doesn't want to wear one.

     
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    MrsNerdy    April 14, 2012   Austin wedding, live in Houston, TX

    I am making mini-bouquets for our mothers, and wrist corsages for our grandmothers

     
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    ellabee    July 3, 2011   Virginia

    My mom wanted a wrist corsage, so my mom and MIL both had them. Grandmothers had pin on corsages (like a boutenier).

    ETA My mom specifically said she did not want a bouquet, else I'd have made her a bouquet instead.

     
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    bijou214    February 19, 2012  

    both moms, two grandmothers, a slew of "aunties" and "uncles" will all wear a corsage or bout. per my mother. =P

     
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    MissTX    May 17, 2013   Texas

    ummm..I don't think so. I can't remember ever seeing moms with corsages so but maybe I just didn't pay attention!? lol

     
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    Sparkidoodle    September 23, 2012  

    Both our mum's shall be wearing corsages or bouttonierres :)

     
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    MilksMom    June 23, 2012   Richmond, VA

    My Mom and FMIL are carrying simple trumpet tulips and our grandmothers are carrying single roses.  I also saw this which I LOVE and would do, but my mom is a jewelery fanatic and will probably have all of this planned out!  I PERSONALLY couldn't fathom putting holes in formal wear!

    Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage? :  wedding mother of bride corsage Corsage

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    All of ours are wearing pin-ons. They don't like the look of wrist corsages, they feel like they get in the way. So we compromised.

     
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    lamkky    August 11, 2012  

    When I meet with florist, I had them quote me but with pin-on as we figured the moms will probably feel uncomfortable having the thing on the wrist all day long.  (our wedding is unfortunately running all-day-long)

    One of them suggest to use magnets.  Instead of doing pin-on, they have this magnetic thing that can take place of the pin so it won't ruin the expensive dress the moms have.  Basically the magnet will be front and back so it will stay there like a pin without poking a hole. 

    Something like this:

    http://www.afloral.com/Silk-Wedding-Flowers/Corsage-Boutonnieres/Corsage-Magnet-5-Sets

     

     
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    beargoose    October 13, 2012   Greenville, SC

    I voted yes, but I wouldn't necessarily say they should wear one. It's just nice to include  them that way if they want to. If they don't, then no worries!

     
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    Bichon Frise    June 2012   NC

    I voted yes too. I think the mothers like to feel special on the wedding day.

     
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    Tv    September 16, 2012   Bergen County NJ

    We are providing a wildflower corsage or Boutonnière for all our elderly guests (80+) and a special corsage for our mothers.

     
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    rosieposie1112    November 12, 2011  

    Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage? :  wedding mother of bride corsage Pearl Leaf Brooch

    For my fall themed wedding I had these pin-on brooches for all the moms, aunts, and grandmothers. They loved it because it didn't matter what color they wore and wasn't too big and became a keepsake after.

    Will Your Mother and Groom's Mother wear a Corsage? :  wedding mother of bride corsage Mens Leaf Pin

    I used these for groomsmen, fathers, and uncles.

    Saved on the florist bill too!

     
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    mzjohnwood    July 7, 2012  

    I'm going to include them. Feels like a nice gesture that the moms/grandmas would appreciate, no matter how "prom-y" it might feel.

    However, I'm DIYing my flowers and am not certain how that would work with corsages (or boutonnières for the men, now that I think about it). I really love the bracelet with the flower on it from above (posted by @MilksMom). What a great idea--and very DIYable. Does anyone have any other DIY corsage ideas?

     

     
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    thursdayschild    May 2012   Port Hueneme, CA

    Ours won't. We're not big flower people and I'm not fussy on the aesthetic of it.

     
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    QBbride    September 2, 2012   North Vancouver, BC

    I think our Mums will wear corsages. MIL is really set on at least the grandparents wearing corsages/bouts.

     
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    garden_bride    August 2012  

    Yes...or updated versions of one.

     

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