(Closed) Wish I could stop thinking about the past.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1519 posts
Bumble bee

Couples counseling might help. It seems like he honestly cares about you and regrets being too helpful for his ex, but I think it was probably healing for him to help someone in a situation he wishes he had been supported in. I don’t think his intention was to make you feel less important, and he obviously wants to make ammends. I would try to just move on and stop thinking about it…focus on all the things you love about him. Forgive him and yourself. Don’t regret what happened in the past, because it has the power to make your relationship a lot stronger. If this is too hard to do, couples counseling can also give you tools to work through it.

Post # 4
915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My advice is just to focus on the here and now. Say that to yourself all of the time. 

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