(Closed) wishy washy or just bad waiting day

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Hmm. . . on the one hand, I think that if he is getting an e-ring, then you should too– a stand-in until you find the right setting for the diamond he has. On the other hand, if you know you are going to get married, and he bought and already posesses the diamond, why waste the money on a stand-in? Unless you find something inexpensive on Etsy or in a jewelry shop in your town.

If you’re both wanting to get a stand-in, and that was the agreement, I would insist on it before moving in, and get something inexpensive that you could perhaps wear on your right hand once you have the real ring.

Even if the stand-in doesn’t look like a traditional e-ring, if you’re wearing it on the proper finger, people will assume it’s an e-ring. I wear a nice gemstone ring I bought years ago on the middle finger of my left hand and people (esp. my relatives) constantly assume it’s an engagement ring. 

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