(Closed) Within your group of friends,do you feel obligated to ‘plan’ each other’s b’day?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I haven’t felt obligated to plan anyone of my friends birthdays since I was 25 or so. Most of my friends started to become married at that point or in serious relationships and the SO planned something.

With that said prior to being 25 I would have def made sure that there was something planned or at least asked if something was planned. You could do dinner the night before, but I would check to make sure she has something going on, on her actually birthday otherwise the break up could make the day even more depressing.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We usually just plan our own birthdays now. But if you don’t mind, and know she’d like it if you planned something, then why not?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

We actually plan most of our own birthdays – or sometimes SO will plan a surprise party.

Like another post said, if you don’t mind doing it, then why not.

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