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your feelings are not immature at all, you deserve for things to go your way, it's your wedding day! order the garter and the tablecloths you want anyway. it may be too late for changing the venue and dresses, but not for those things. i think you just need to be upfront with your bridesmaids and say that due to financial circumstances you can't afford the shoes for them, so maybe say you will contribute a certain amount, but if they could contribute the rest?
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This is going to be a silly sad post.. you don't need to feel bad. I just need to get it off my chest.
/start immaturity
Now that we are getting closer to the wedding, everything is becoming a pain in the ass. I just want one thing to go my way or for someone to go with my design or be able to go with my idea.
I let the girls pick the dresses.. because I couldn't find one color (blush) I picked another one.. and I am afraid it is going to be horrible. I wanted blush dresses (too late now). I'm trying to find shoes. I just want open toes beige/nude pumps.. I don't want to ask the girls to buy them, but I can not find them cheap enough where I would be able to buy them. I bought 2 dresses hoping I would love them.. and I honestly don't love either of them. For the dress I am going to wear, I have been looking for a veil (the veil I loved is $500, not happening) I can not find what I am looking for or will go for my vision. I want pintuck table cloths!! JUST UGHHH I want them!!!!! My mom is fighting tooth and nail, get polyester ones they are so cheap, f that. I wanted my fi to wear a suit, a tan one, he vetoed that. I said whatever let's do tuxes with bowties. I found THE cutest bowtie, and I can't tie it and it looks awful. And I am wondering if the guys will look more dressed up because their bowties will be black and his is a peach paisley. I conceded on the reception venue because my FFIL threw a fricken temper tantrum. I wanted this garter, but FMIL is making mine, but I wanted the one I saw this one: http://www.etsy.com/listing/90844844/beautiful-ivory-or-white-lace-bridal(hers is probably going to itch my leg raw)!
And on top of this I asked my photographer about a boudoir session and she hasn't gotten back to me.. POOP.
I JUST WANT ONE DAMN THING TO GO MY WAY. It's my (ours, I ask his opinion on everything hence why I have conceded on almost everything) wedding isn't it?!!? I hate everyone right now, and want this stupid thing to be over.
/end rant, and immature feelings