Women hitting on your SO at the pool or in general? How do you handle it?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

what! thats just bizarre behavior! Clearly you two are there together – which you made clear when you brought up swimming.  Dont hang out with her (obviously) and just take it as a compliment! 

Post # 6
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would’ve given her a fake number.

Post # 7
125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Just saying, but this along with your other post about his former friend makes me think you have some jealousy issues. 

Women are going to flirt with attractive men. It can’t be helped. Women flirt with my FI all the time and I let it roll off my shoulders. Why should I care? He’s my FI.

Post # 8
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I don’t. He would handle it. They are flirting with him, not me. If you can’t trust your boyfriend to handle it, that’s a whole other issue. 

Post # 10
15011 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

It doesn’t bother me when women flirt with hubs, it’s a compliment to me. Girls flirt with him all the time and I think it’s adorable, but I have complete faith in him. Now the asking for the numbers thing, yeah, that goes a bit far. It’s happened to us a few times. I either only give my number to females, if I want them as a contact or to hang out with, or I simply tell them that is crossing a line, nicely but firmly. Some people don’t know about boundaries and it’s okay to set them, but they can understand when you tell them they have gone to far for your comfort level. 

Post # 11
2232 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@GirlPower:  That is bizarre. I’m not a jealous person, personally, so my FI and I would probably raise our eyebrows at each other then laugh about the strange person later.

Post # 12
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I totally disagree.  My FI would never,  and I mean never, allow me to be uncomfortable in a situation like that. Just as I wouldn’t do the same to him. And the giving of numbers. .. fk no. Wouldn’t happen.  Its called respect.  

Post # 13
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@GirlPower:  Not sure about everything else, but no way I’d be ok with my husband being “gym buddies” with a girl like that….he wouldnt be ok with it either. Idk..

Post # 15
1590 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

why would your FI want to hang out with her?

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