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Oh I knew that would get your attention! LOL
Let's just say I have been enjoying sex longer than most of you dear bees have been dancing on the planet. Ocassionally I would "squirt" while orgasming. The first few time I was embarassed, I thought I peed myself! Apparently this is due to stimulation of the Skene's gland, also known as para-urethral glands.
My FH absolutely adores stimulating me to the point of squirting. I mean he really, REALLY loves it. I enjoy getting there for sure, but I have never experienced a man who is so into it.So how about my fellow bees - anyone with a DH or FH on such a mission?
Yup. DH was the first to be able to get me to that point and now he makes damn sure I do every single time. I, as well, was quite embarassed at first but he was beyond ecstatic that he could get me there. I still apologize sometimes that I make such a mess, especially when it's not in bed with a towel, but he loves it. Really, its a way of knowing I've reached my absolute climax and that he's doing his job.
Ugh, I've heard about this and we tried to get it to happen but couldn't! So frustrating!!!! Got any helpful hints???
Yeah, hubs loves knowing he's the only guy whose been able to make me do this. Now that he knows where it is, he goes after it quite often ;)
This may sound stupid, but are you having them use their fingers to find it or is there another trick to it? And does it feel like you're peeing when it happens?
Wow tmi!! Lol Hehehe but yes FI has accomplished that mission.lol he was in complete shock the first time it happend as I was too.lol he kind of already figured out the magic spot.lol @tiffybear I found my spot using a little his/her mini vibrator well he used it on me maybe your honey can use that on you to find your spot,after you find it automatically any little touch will set you off;) have fun exploring.
my FI usually uses his fingers and sometimes our little vibrator when he wants to intinsify it.and sometimes it does feel like I'm peeing but its not oh and FI knows he hit the spot when my legs start to shake a bit.LOL
@NanaluvzGeo: My legs shake too! Oh and when they do, my FH gets this look in his eye that says he's not quitting until I let go! I tell you, he's on a mission!
@MadameTussaud: My FH uses his fingers. We have never tried it with a vibrator but it sounds interesting. The first few times I thought I peed myself, not because I felt like I was peeing but because of the quanity of fluid released. Oh it feels much, much, better than peeing. LOL!
I squirt. But, its not all the time. The more sex we in a short amount of time is the trick for me. Since FI's been in school its not been hardly at all....but I KNOW we'll get it going again. It does make a mess, but we got a Liberator throw blanket and its saved our sheets! HIGHLY recommend them. Liberator.com baby!
You ladies are lucky. Never happened for me. I didn't even know all women were capable of this!
I wish I could do this. Maybe we are doing something wrong in the bedroom? My mother told me that she can! Eeek! Now that's TMI!!! lol! But, it did give me hope :)
I've done it to myself but BF's never been able to make it happen but not for lack of trying!
My problem is I feel so uncomfortable when I feel like I have to pee so I usually have him stop or switch positions (best for me to do this is on top and I get so close but I'm so uncomfortable when I feel like I have to pee)
Actually my new year's resolution was to be better at just letting go and staying/not making him stop so I can get there.
Any tips ladies? How do you relax or let go?
It's happened to me ONE time and I enjoyed it so much I just giggled in bliss.
Hasn't happened since, though!
This has never happened to me. But I literally just looked at DH and told him his new mission was to make me squirt and we were going to practice this weekend :)
LOL WOW this really is TMI. This has never happened to me, but my honey has no trouble "getting me there" ;-)
Never had the pleasure (lol)... This is something that DH and I have looked into though and once I'm not preggers anymore we definitely want to try.
I know that being comfortable is a HUGE part of the "success" and well with my ability to pee every 20 minutes right now I could NOT be comfortable "letting go" at this point. lol
For those that would like more instructional information check out this guy, Jason Julius.
He has done a wonderful job of explaining female orgasm and has a pretty decent blog. He has a whole video set that DH and I want to get just to learn more.. since we're going to be doing each other for a long time we'd like to learn all we can to keep things fresh tehe. I saw a clip of one of them, including a demo, and can say it's done VERY tastefully... only with life like models NOT PEOPLE so it's NOT porn.
Here's his blog and his site where he talks more about his videos
WARNING: his "site" goes straight into a video talking about "orgasms" so I wouldn't watch it with family around and just be prepared... it IS all about sex & intimacy. You can put in your email to verify your age and see the demo video... it's a "safe" site as DH and I have already seen it.
I could do it to myself when I was a teenager (13-15 years old)but as I matured it stopped happening!
It's only happened a couple of times for me, but my SO doesn't "seek out the squirt".
@SandyDollHair: Me too! I wish I could still do it, as I feel like I'm missing out somewhat.
@SandyDollHair: I'm the same way. I could do it from masturbating quite frequently as a teenager. But then it stopped happening (even with self-stimulation like I used before).
Does it feel different?- like is the orgasm different. DH hits the g-spot all the time and the O's are amazing and intense. How is sqirting different?
@mmsva: I was wondering this too! How does it feel?
My FI is the only guy that has been able to give me multiples and orgasms with penetration alone. My FI says he can't believe how wet I am during sex and honestly, I don't ever remember being that wet with anyone else. There are times that I feel so much pressure that I swear that I must be on the verge of squirting...but I don't know for sure!
to me my orgasm are intense regularly but when I squirt its super beyond intense,kind of like multiple orgasms cuz I've had those as well! Lol and you will totally ruin your sheets if you don't have like a towel or something else underneath:p
I've had it happen once or twice with DH but...TMI (although you're probably okay with that if you're reading this thread!) I can make it happen by bringing myself to o multiple times in a row...like the third or fourth time it'll happen. The times it's happened with DH are when I'm very worked up and he takes his time teasing me and getting me to o. Like when I'm almost there he'll back off and then start again. Doesn't always work but sometimes. I've had no luck with the g spot though.
Yep... and now it's like he expects it every time. He loves it. I don't get it but he does. I don't like the mess! And it doesn't just "happen" for me. I have to kinda help it along, which I do from time to time because he loves it so much. But, darn it! Can we just have normal sex without all the mess?! lol
FI loves it a lot.TMI but since were LDR we sometimes skype and he loves to see my make myself squirt.
@kayberry: Just remember that its impossible to actually pee while aroused. Strange i know but true. The squirt will feel a little like you have to pee but after you just let go.
i'm old and been around the block a few times myself but how do you know when you squirt? if you're "otherwise occupied" and you know what i mean, how the heck do you know what the heck comes out or when you squirt? or is this solo entertainment? just curious :)
I had an ex that LOVED making me squirt by stimulating my g-spot with his fingers. Once he figured out the trick, he would ALWAYS please me to that point before pleasing himself. I SO miss the way he did that!
@roxymalone: Oh there is absolutely no mistaking it. Yes, I have been very wet when aroused but this is beyond that. For me, right before it happens I ALMOST feel like I have to pee. And it seems relaxing the pelvic floor muscles is essential to "squirt". I release a lot of fluid and it's NOT urine. But it puts male ejaculation to shame in terms of amount - one can literally soak the bed. Sensation-wise, it is almost like a total body orgasm. I think my eyes literally roll back in my head and the sensation spreads over my body to my head in kind of a wave. I'm surprised that I don't drool (and if I did I might not care). Afterwards I always kind of sigh and my FH says for a moment, I totally relax and he says he loves the serene look on my face.
Omg totally Lmao with the "I'm suprised I don't drool" Hehehehe that's so funny because I'm the same way!! Lol I completely loose control of my body and my back arches up!!! Lol my FI gets a kick out of that all the time but he definately makes me knock out afterwards best sleep ever .
My DH hates when I do it. He finds it so gross. So everytime I do it is embarassing. Also it makes such a mess. I always have to change the sheets afterwards and that is annoying.
I wish there was a way I wouldn't do it. My DH has asked me to talk to my gyno about it.
It happens for me a lot. I can never do it myself but if FI holds my knees up near my shoulders and I throw my feet over his shoulders in missionary and it hits the spot exactly. I look like a pretzel but it sure feels good! The first time it happened I was a little tipsy and I sooo thought I peed myself. Turns out FI is just awesome, haha. I've noticed he'll really try for it after he's had a drink or two but we're not disappointed if it doesn't happen.
@blldgpuppy: Your DH needs a little education. Squirting is the sign that a vaginal orgasm has ocurred and it is a GOOD thing. There is absolutely nothing abnormal about it at all.
I've squirted a few times. I remember thinking I peed after the first time. I was so embarrassed. But now it's a ton of fun.
@blldgpuppy: that kinda makes me sad!! he should be happy you're getting so much satisfaction...plus it's nothing that makes you abnormal or gross! Technically, he does the same thing!!
I thought that it wasn't common but from reading here, it doesn't look like it lol.
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