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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    So today we are 4 months out from our March 20 wedding... and 11 months in from our engagement. I look back at all the tears, the money issues, the fretting over stupid stuff... and I feel wompy. I think about the toll this has taken on our relationship (straining, as most financial issues are- especially since FI isn't a exhuberantly involved groom) and wish we had just done something NO-STRESS in Mexico or Vegas.

    Anyone else feeling OVER the wedding sometimes? Some days I just can't wait till March 21!!!!!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    You're getting so close! And I totally know what you mean about the drama - I've had more than my fair share of it, and we're only 3 months into the engagement!!! (HUGS) You've only got 4 months left!!! You can do it!

     
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    Miss Sequoia    May 21, 2011   Berkeley, CA

    (((Hugs for the pugs)))

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I know how you feel!  I hope you are done most of your stuff so that you can just relax and coast into the wedding date!

     
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    bkgrahamwedding    March 20, 2010   Pensacola, FL

    Hey there date twin! :) ((((hugs)))) I know it can be rough. My FI and I have had our share of tough times since we got engaged last March. I swear, if I hear "Whatever you want babe" one more time, I'll scream.

    March is so close, though, so hang in there and look forward to the fact that newlywedded bliss will make you forget all about the planning process!

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    YAY date twin!

    I just hope FI will think it's all worth it in the end too. He hates drama and well... at least in HIS family (coughFMILcough) WEDDINGS=DRAMA!

     
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    luckyyou    March 20, 2010   Philadelphia, PA

    date triplets?!

    I feel very similar actually!! Planning this thing has not always been rainbows and butterflies. I sometimes wish we had just gone to the courthouse and gotten it over with like his parents wanted (we were moving in together and they really we against us living together pre-wedding... needless to say we didn't do that) Oh and I get 'Whatever you want babe' too... another popular one is (from his mom) 'This is YOUR wedding....'...... le sigh

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    I think this is totally normal! I remember seeing lots of ladies on here that seemed to be going through the same thing as their weddings got closer. Just keep your eye on the prize girl! It'll be here before you know it! Wink

     

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