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posted 2 years ago in Emotional
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    tashawilson    July 31, 2010   Snellville

    ever since i got engaged, life has has it's ups and downs.  more ups, but the downs where waaaaaaay down.  got laid off as a teacher, fiance lost his job and then employment.  so you see what i am getting at?  noooo money.  but we were determined to get married.

    fast forward february, no dress, no plans, hopes and wishes.  then we found a venue.  my dad paid the first deposit, but we have to pay the second one, mom is paying final.  then a seamstress e-mailed me a beautiful dress that she could make for $499.  still no money...

    then i got a job, making waaaaaaaaay less than i was initially making.  it's enough, but still we struggle.

    AND THEN THINGS GET BETTER:

    the lady at my job is a caterer,  very expensive caterer with real good food.

    my boss???  former special events coordinator-FREE.

    old high school friend reaches out and says he can photograph our wedding for $485 (and ladies, he's the bomb) as a gift.

    paid for my dress in full.

    a co-worker makes jewelry (can you say brides' maids gifts)

    another co-worker is a graphics genius.  invitations-$100 for 125

    my smile=priceless

    now the other things.  fiance and i are sending out resumes like crazy.  so we are hopeful he will have a job by june.

    moral of story:

    some things are a blessing in disguise!  woooosah!

     
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    tashawilson    July 31, 2010   Snellville

    sorry and then he lost his unemployment.

     
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    tashawilson    July 31, 2010   Snellville

    sooo many mistakes...the caterer is doing the job for $600.  we just purchase the food.  and she has chafing dishes!

     
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    glad to see things are looking up for you!!

     
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    Potatoes    May 5, 2012   Ohio

    I'd make typos if I were that excited too :P congratulations! :)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    That's fantastic! Congrats!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    That's wonderful!  I'm glad that you are getting back on your feet now!  Hopefully, your FI gets a job soon and you find something that pays better!

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    thats great!!! you have surrounding yourself with awesome people so you get awesome things in return!!!

     
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    Wow.  That is so fantastic!  He're hoping FI gets an awesome job soon!

     
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    denverbirdlet    September 18, 2010   Denver, getting married in Madison, WI

    it sounds like things are turning around for you!  And seriously, "friendors" are the best ... they can really help make your day special since its not just total strangers providing the food, photography and love for your wedding!

     
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    denverbirdlet    September 18, 2010   Denver, getting married in Madison, WI

    it sounds like things are turning around for you!  And seriously, "friendors" are the best ... they can really help make your day special since its not just total strangers providing the food, photography and love for your wedding!

     
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    tammyt112    May 29, 2010  

    glad its all working out! Its good to know people in different places

     
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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    Good for you!

     
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    brittanymichelle    June 5, 2010   Cheyenne, Wy

    how perfect!!! what a lucky(unlucky)girl! lol, it's great that you can still find the good, even when it's going bad!

     
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    aunt pol    May 7, 2011   Ireland

    Delighted for you. And you know, you could be better off this way - you're making your wedding happen. If you'd both been working, you'd probably like all of us have been living to or beyond your means, and perhaps would have borrowed a lot of money to pay for your wedding. Hurray for friendors!

     
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    rlsulli1598@verizon.net       oregon

    Good for you!  The universe provides in mysterious ways!  You have lots of silver linings in your clouds!

     
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    vfoster03    June 18, 2010   Glendale, Ca

    I'm soooo glad everything is working out for you!!! I can't even imagine how much stress that must have been.

     
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    farfromordinarybride    December 31, 2010   PA

    That's great and only going to get better. Stay positive!

     

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