- 5 years ago
@ForeverbluexX: It sounds like things are going along well in your relationship and that’s great. If he’s bringing up marriage he is definitely thinking about it and trying to find out how you feel about it.
I don’t understand why you wouldn’t take him seriously, but since you really love this man and he’s perfect for you, please do take him seriously. He wants you to! My DH did the same thing, brought it up in similar ways to see how I would react. I definitely took him seriously because I wanted him to know we were on the same page.
6 years is not much of an age difference at your age. You’re jumping the gun wondering and worrying about being able to conceive or not, you’re not even engaged yet. He may not even want children – have the two of you discussed any of these things?
Also, 33 is very young to be worried about fertility issues, plenty of women in their 30’s and 40’s conceive and have healthy babies every day. I don’t think you have anything to be worried about. 🙂
Hi thanks for replying 🙂
i guess I didn’t take him seriously because of the age difference and the fact that before I met him I was in a relationship which was not so great..I kinda got used to not being very trusting
we have discussed having children as I know that it’s something he wants and it’s important to him..your right though I probably am jumping the gun..I’m a worrier by nature and I always felt I wouldn’t want kids at or around the age of 35 ..I guess life has a way of making us rethink our plans!
@ForeverbluexX: There are sooooo many people who have kids at 35 or later. I know a baby born to a first time mom in her late 30’s and he is literally the cutest baby ever. This guy loves you. I think the best thing you can do right now is mentally prepare yourself for a small, quick wedding! Work out and start saving!
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