(Closed) worried about comparisons

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

People will compare the weddings, but remember that everyone has different tastes and styles. As long as you are happy with your venue and wedding choices, theres no reason to stress. 

Post # 4
Member
11753 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t worry about it – they are going to be completely different feels!  I’d be more worried if you guys were having similar type of weddings – there’s much more room for comparing there! As long as you and FI love your wedding that’s all that truly matters.  You cannot control what people think or say – People are always going to judge and compare, and no matter what you do some people just aren’t going to like your wedding for whatever reason.  But, it doesn’t matter what everyone else likes as long as you love it!  Relax, your wedding will be gorgeous and amazing!

Post # 5
Hostess
1427 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

People are going to compare; don’t let it get to you. It’s completely out of your control.

Post # 6
Member
1583 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You know, I had the fancy hotel wedding and I didn’t think a country wedding was my taste. A friend had a “country” wedding a few months after we were married and I loved it! You know why? Because it suited her! It was exactly the wedding I pictured for her and it was perfect! It so obviously spoke of the couple and the thing that made it the most beautiful was how happy they were together! That is what I noticed the most! People may compare, but just know that you are having the wedding that is perfect for you and it doesn’t make it any less nice than a hotel wedding!

Post # 7
Member
7794 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would be more worried if yours was comparable but cheaper, e.g. also in Boston but in an older building with a boring view. But your rustic wedding will have a totally, totally different feel and people will appreciate and enjoy that.

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