Worried about him…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1838 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@worldtraveler:  i can def understand your worrying b/c i’m like this too with imagining worst case scenarios.  he’s prob just sleeping if he’s so exhausted, though!

Post # 4
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Ugh. I always get like this – whenever my SO is away or I can’t get in touch with my family. Usually, their phones have just died. That’s literally the answer 97% of the time I freak out and worry! I’m sure he’s fine – try to get some sleep!

Post # 5
2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I am not in a LDR, but I am definitely neurotic. If my SO is late coming home from work, I start to wonder all sorts of things. Chances are he came home and fell fast asleep or some other simple explanation. Everything always seems worse at night. With him being exhausted and spending his day driving, I doubt very much that he has the capacity to run off with some girl on his tour right now.

Post # 6
845 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@worldtraveler:  how long has it been since you expected to hear from him? 

ETA: Phew! Sleep well!


Post # 8
4941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@worldtraveler:  Okay, DEEP breath! We women have a problem with overthinking and going to bad places, when we really don’t need to at all. I’m sure that your SO is perfectly fine, probably just sleeping! He sounds like a busy guy! I know that it’s hard, but try not to go there. There has been quite a few times when DH is about an hour late home from work, and within that hour I am going down every possible bad road I could, for no reason. Then he comes home, and it’s all good! 

Can you go hang out with some girlfriends or something to keep yourself occupied until he calls? 

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