Worried about hurting MOH's feelings…

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1167 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@HappyORBride:  Sounds odd if she would be hurt about that? The only expos Ive been to were with FI and with my FSIL (not even in the bridal party), neither my BM or MOH could care less really… Haha. I don’t think she would be upset at your looking at some wedding stuff once with another of your closest friends, else she be quite the clingy one?

Post # 4
1715 posts
Bumble bee

Just go with your bridesmaid. She’s the one who suggested it, so she’s the one you go with. You don’t have to invite your MOH and alter how you do things just because it’s a bridal expo that you’ll be going to that Friday. It’s not that big of a deal. Just go, have fun, and leave it at that. 

Post # 5
4657 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Why not also have a day when you and MOH got out?

Post # 6
417 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Is your MOH super sensitive?  I’m only asking because that’s the only way I’d see her getting upset.  I’ve been in weddings where I wasn’t asked to go to every little wedding related thing and I didn’t care at all.  I haven’t invited all of my bridesmaids to everything I do either.  They’re all busy too so the way I see it is they can’t make every detail anyway and that’s ok too.

Post # 7
222 posts
Helper bee

Talk to the other bridesmaid about your MOH coming – this could be a good bonding experience for them and for the three of you as a wedding-unit?

Post # 8
44 posts
  • Wedding: February 2014

@HappyORBride:  Go with your BM and have fun! I really don’t think your MOH would be hurt; it’s not like you ditched her to go out with your BM. Take it easy 😉 Would your feelings be hurt if it was the other way around?

Post # 9
1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Your BM invited you out, it’s not like you arranged something and left your MOH out intentionally! Go with your BM, have a ball, and don’t worry about it… I’m sure your MOH knows she has a ton of time to hang and plan with you!!

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