(Closed) Worried about hurting MOH's feelings…

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1162 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@HappyORBride:  Sounds odd if she would be hurt about that? The only expos Ive been to were with Fiance and with my Future Sister-In-Law (not even in the bridal party), neither my Bridesmaid or Best Man or Maid/Matron of Honor could care less really… Haha. I don’t think she would be upset at your looking at some wedding stuff once with another of your closest friends, else she be quite the clingy one?

Post # 4
2296 posts
Buzzing bee

Just go with your bridesmaid. She’s the one who suggested it, so she’s the one you go with. You don’t have to invite your Maid/Matron of Honor and alter how you do things just because it’s a bridal expo that you’ll be going to that Friday. It’s not that big of a deal. Just go, have fun, and leave it at that. 

Post # 5
4682 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Why not also have a day when you and Maid/Matron of Honor got out?

Post # 6
417 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Is your Maid/Matron of Honor super sensitive?  I’m only asking because that’s the only way I’d see her getting upset.  I’ve been in weddings where I wasn’t asked to go to every little wedding related thing and I didn’t care at all.  I haven’t invited all of my bridesmaids to everything I do either.  They’re all busy too so the way I see it is they can’t make every detail anyway and that’s ok too.

Post # 7
221 posts
Helper bee

Talk to the other bridesmaid about your Maid/Matron of Honor coming – this could be a good bonding experience for them and for the three of you as a wedding-unit?

Post # 8
44 posts
  • Wedding: February 2014

@HappyORBride:  Go with your Bridesmaid or Best Man and have fun! I really don’t think your Maid/Matron of Honor would be hurt; it’s not like you ditched her to go out with your Bridesmaid or Best Man. Take it easy 😉 Would your feelings be hurt if it was the other way around?

Post # 9
1387 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Your Bridesmaid or Best Man invited you out, it’s not like you arranged something and left your Maid/Matron of Honor out intentionally! Go with your Bridesmaid or Best Man, have a ball, and don’t worry about it… I’m sure your Maid/Matron of Honor knows she has a ton of time to hang and plan with you!!

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