(Closed) Worried about not being able to have a baby?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@roxy_angell13: I’m sorry for your losses. *hugs*

 I suffered two miscarriages before going on to have my (now 5 years old) son.

Post # 4
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332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’m so sorry that you have to go through this! I had a miscarriage last year and I had (and still have!) the same fears. I got pregnant the first month that my doctor said I was allowed to TTC, and I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant, so far so good. I still check every time I go to the bathroom to make sure there’s no blood, and I’m still going to worry until I get to see my healthy baby in front of me. I think that’s normal. But like you said, miscarriage is also normal, and most people do go on to have babies.

Post # 5
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Like @colors, I had a miscarriage and am now 13 weeks pregnant and so far, so good.  I still get nervous, but am starting to relax and actually believe we will have a baby at the end of this. 

Miscarriage sucks.  And you’re right, it IS hard to get over, but just hang in there!  Good luck!

Post # 6
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467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sorry for your losses. *hugs* I know a few people that have miscarried and then gone on to have more children. It is COMPLETELY normal. 

I havent had any miscarraiges but I do worry about not being able to fall pregnant. I feel like it should have happened by now!!

Good luck! And remember you’ve always got the Bee to fall back on when things get tough. 🙂

Post # 7
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@roxy_angell13: I feel the same exact way you do. We’ve had similar situations. I feel like sometimes all my worrying about it is going to jinx me or something. I haven’t really gotten over what I’ve been through. I have a hard time dealing with grief and this is no different for me.  However, I’m glad that you posted this, because at least I know there’s someone else out there who is going through the same thing.

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