(Closed) Worried and freaking out

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ugh I’m so sorry. Is there someone above this woman he can talk to and present the emails, etc to them? An HR department he can make a complaint to? He shouldn’t have to put up with that. Maybe he should start putting out resumes and try to secure another position and quit this job. Anything has to be better than working for this woman!!

Post # 4
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@bakerella: totally agree, there’s got to be someone above this woman that he can go to. No one should be allowed to treat someone like that!!! I hate higher up people on a power trip

Post # 6
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It honestly doesn’t sound like she’s going to fire him, you know why?  Because she hasn’t already… you know why?  Because he’s good at what he does.  In a market, where people would be begging for that job, she won’t take advantage.  Because in her mind your DH makes her look better.  Sounds like he does his job, is well educated and unfortuately has no other choice but to take her sh**.  I’m so sorry for being blunt, but I’m in the same industry and your DH and I understand the dynamics of it right now.  I highly doubt she would fire him… why would she?  She’s honestly got it good.  Does that make any sense? 

Post # 7
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m just going to put this out there, what if he stood up to her? What if next time she talked down to him or was a huge be-otch, he told her he was sick of her crap and to start acting like an adult? She’d probably threaten to fire him yet again, but still not do it because she’d be up a creek without him. Some people thrive off being the one in power, but when challenged will back down because they realize they’re not going to win.

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