Worried BM might bring drugs to wedding.. ADVICE

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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579 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

FirstComesLoveNZ:  If she’s high, let them arrest her. We had a cop in attendance and our venue was next to the dog unit. We just informed guests that we knew smoked that if they were high, we would do nothing to prevent them being arrested. Hell, I’d have encouraged it. You don’t worry about it, plan as if she won’t be there. Tell her if she is high they will arrest her regardless of it being your wedding. It is that simple, either she acts like an adult and goes without the weed for the wedding or she takes the consequences of her actions. I know it’s stressful but trust me, she isn’t worth stressing over

Post # 3
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

BtoR: I agree with you!

Maybe if her habit has become this bad  letting her see the consequences of her actions happen. At the same time if there was any law eforcement involved I would ask them to politely and quietly notify you and have her removed discreetly

Post # 5
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579 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

FirstComesLoveNZ:  I truly think not letting it stress you is the best thing you can focus on. You deserve to be stress-free and as hard as I can imagine it is to not worry about, it’d be best for you.

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