(Closed) Worst timing ever

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Performance anxiety. Poor guy. But guess what? He knows it and will likely surprise jump you soon when he’s “up” for it, or it will work out tomorrow. Surprise him first thing in the morning maybe? Most guys love morning sex. If your fertile window is just starting, you still have at least 4 days to get it on. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

His timing sucks, but it will be well worth it. Qutting smoking will be one of the best things he ever did for himself and you and any kids you wil have. Try to be as supportive as possible!

Post # 5
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7653 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

PPs are both right. Be patient. He is doing something very good for himself, you, and your future babies. Good luck πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Sorry you guys are having a tought month. One piece of advice, don’t share anything he doesn’t absolutely need to know. Let him think you are having sex just because you want to. I know it’s tough because you want to share everything with him, but temps/charts etc can be pretty overwhelming to a guy and may give him anxiety.

Post # 8
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4574 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Max04092010:  YAY!!! iam glad you were able to BD πŸ™‚ quiting smoking is really hard.  I stopped 8 years ago and i love it now, but when i first started i was in really bad withdraw….i would stand next to people that smoked just to smell it lol…i was bad. 

Post # 9
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871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Max04092010:  I understand your feelings, you can definitely get a BFP even if you do it just a few times during your fertile window. My DH was sick during a peak fertile day and we weren’t able to BD. I thought we were out because we didn’t do it everyday but I got the BFP anyway and we are 18 weeks along with our little girl now! GL!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

Just saw your update! Congrats momma!

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