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Would a ball gown and long veil be appropriate for small wedding???

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    KW1111    May 11, 2012  

    Hello,

    My fiance and I are having a small wedding with around 40 guests. I purchased a big poufy ball gown and a cathedral length veil for an outdoor garden ceremony and a small reception inside a community center. There will be no alcohol and no dancing at the reception. Would a simpler dress and shorter veil make more sense for this type of wedding? or can I stick with what I have? Please help

     
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    parasol    September 16, 2011   Los Angeles

    It's your wedding, and if you want to wear a ballgown and long veil, then I say you should! I wore a ballgown and fingertip length veil to our intimate wedding ceremony of 16 people, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. (We also had a larger reception with dinner, drinks, and dancing a few hours later, but I was going to wear that ballgown no matter what!)

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    I'd go with the shorter dress and veil given the venue and reception you described. Maybe you should add a poll to this question.

     
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    Jd64848704    April 1, 2012   New York (Upstate).. Wedding at Niagara Falls

    It's your wedding!! You should have your dream dress no matter the type of wedding you are having!!! Do it up, sister!

     
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    cdncinnamongirl    October 2012   Ontario, Canada

    I do think it's great to take into account the overall style of your wedding/venue BUT at the end of the day, it's your one day and you should pick the dress you love the best!  I'm having a small wedding too (about 50-75 ppl) and I have a pretty full skirted dress too.

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    Well I am wearing a ballgown and long veil for my afternoon wedding and afternoon tea with about 60-70 ppl and figure it works for me.

    I decided to have the wedding of my dreams and the rules have fallen a bit by the wayside

     
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    Cappugcino    May 18, 2013   Midwest getting Married in Perth, ON near Ottawa

    I say it's your wedding day, wear whatever makes you happy and that you'll look back on fondly.  My wedding is going to have a guest list of 14-20 including us and I'm plannning to wear a very formal gown and cathedral length veil for the ceremony.  If you feel good and are happy then it works whether it's a traditional ball gown in white, a short hot pink dress and birdcage veil or anything else.  The woman makes the outfit :)

     
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    msfahrenheit    August 28, 2011   Blacksburg VA

    If you love your dress, then wear it. The bride can never be overdressed ;)

     
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    KW1111    May 11, 2012  

    Thanks Everyone! I absolutley LOVE my dress and veil so I think I will keep them! ;)

     
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    Genuine513    June 29, 2012   BC, Canada

    You wear what you want to wear!!!

     

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